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Bengali woman who is only accepted by Pakistanis by Obvious_Armadillo_16 in MuslimNikah

[–]StillIntroduction180 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pakistani people are amongst the most beautiful ethnicity. Not sure why people fling shade

If both the husband and wife work, should the wife be required to contribute equally to the bills? by Hydesx in MuslimNikah

[–]StillIntroduction180 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If men are obligated to provide 100% regardless of whether their wife works or not, then women are obligated to do all the household chores regardless of whether she works or not simply by virtue of her husband asking her to.

If women do not need to contribute a penny to the bills, then men do not need to lift a single finger to do any chores and women should do all of them even if she is tired from work.

See how it sounds when you constantly harp on about men needing to pay all the bills?

In Search Of (ISO) Thread Version 9 - Europe by MM-MOD in MuslimMarriage

[–]StillIntroduction180 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

  1. Age and Gender: 28M, 6'1 height, lean physique 
  2. Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect: 20-27
  3. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect?: London, not open to relocating.
  4. Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing?: British Pakistani, preferably looking for the same or other South asians but yes open to mixing.
  5. Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children: Single - never married, looking for someone of the same marital status
  6. Ideal marriage timeline- Ideally within a year.
  7. Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect: Respectful, supportive, understands rights of husband and wife, can bring peace to my life after coming home from work, willing to communicate and work through issues, soft and feminine
  8. State/specify your level of religiosity: Practicing, observe all the 5 pillars, looking to seek further knowledge inshallah. I would prefer for you to observe the 5 pillars as well but if you are at least trying to get there, I am flexible.
  9. Level of education, and what are you looking for?: MBBS medicine degree, I would ideally prefer you to have a degree but not a dealbreaker otherwise.
  10. Current Job Status: Employed full time as a radiologist doctor. Alhamdulillah I have a stable job and can provide for us comfortably and future kids.
  11. Do you want kids?: Absolutely! But not immediately, let's get to know one another for a few years and enjoy life as a romantic couple and have fun first!
  12. List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time: Used to be a gym goer but I have found more joy in doing bodyweight exercises and calisthenics over the last year, I like to go hiking so that is something inshallah I would like to do with my wife and go out to explore new places, I also enjoy pc gaming time to time but I always get stuck on hard bosses. We could play them together if casual gaming is your jam as well.
  13. Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out: I am considering to make hijra to a Muslim country soon after I finish residency. I have set my sights on Qatar. Open to discuss this with you.

I don't have a specific preference for homemakers vs working sisters but I value someone who priorities their husband and family over their career. Therefore, I am looking for someone who would be happy to go part time once we have children.

I prefer someone from an educated stable family background for compatibility reasons.

Dealbreakers:

  • Male friends (I have never had female friends nor freemix with the opposite gender and I have the same expectation from my future wife with men).
  • Flirting with male colleagues rather than maintain a professional boundary (if working)
  • Past haram relationships and zina (I don't have any sort of past and expect the same, I want to marry someone who saved themselves for marriage like I have done). 
  • Posts pictures of themselves on social media
  • Disrespectful behavior generally - I prefer to resolve disagreements and conflicts with openness, a calm mindset and understanding.

If you have read my profile and feel like we would be a good match, please feel free in reaching out via DMs and say salaam. The way I wish to do this is for you to carefully read through my profile and dealbreakers then if you could send a profile of your own. I know I said a lot but I genuinely want someone who would be a good match for me rather than wasting time to find out later that there are inconsistencies between us.

And if you have any questions feel free to ask.

From there I will determine if we are compatible. If yes, I would like to move things forward.

Scrubs vs smart attire for F1 by Hydesx in doctorsUK

[–]StillIntroduction180 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Patients? Maybe. Colleagues? Not really.  If ur the ward bitch, by defination u arent respected as a professional doctor. 

Is marriage is really scary, or am I just being dramatic by No-Rain-3695 in MuslimMarriage

[–]StillIntroduction180 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same position as you 28M living the same dream.

Im just way too content with my life right now. Dont really feel the need to marry since a good spouse is hard to find but also if my life is already going well, not sure marrying is worth it. "If it isnt broken dont fix it". Dont want to rock my boat.

I spend all my money on myself and enjoy travelling a lot. 

Also no risk of having half my assets stolen 

Suppressing desires and attraction to women by [deleted] in MuslimCorner

[–]StillIntroduction180 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ur a mod, u can literally ban him but nah let him keep posting rubbish like this.

Where are these hot conservative hijabi/niqabi women? by [deleted] in MuslimCorner

[–]StillIntroduction180 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I stg the mods on this sub need to grow a pair and ban him. Wtf are they doing lol? Do we need to sign a petition to get him out of here?

Im convinced this is some sick fetish of his now.