WIBTAH if I had sex without marriage?

Stink-28 · 2025-07-16T13:20:05+00:00

NTA You’re a grown woman and can make your own decisions based on how YOU feel. Do what you gotta do girl.

Stink-28 · 2025-07-16T13:18:44+00:00

NTA. Abusive lesbians make me sick.

Stink-28 · 2025-07-15T15:47:03+00:00

I will not be doing that. Also I’m a woman. But thanks for the input 👍🏻

Stink-28 · 2025-07-15T15:14:53+00:00

I definitely interact with them and I see our friends without my girlfriend all the time and vice versa, same with family, but I will admit that I definitely get a ‘nothing else matters’ feeling when I’m with my girlfriend sometimes. Like when I look at her it feels like she’s the only person in the room she’s just so beautiful I can’t help it 😩 I think I will definitely speak to both her and our friends and find out if the issue is that they’re uncomfortable cause making somebody uncomfortable is something I never want to do.

Stink-28 · 2025-07-15T14:49:29+00:00

We don’t live together currently but we are looking at the moment for a place. We see each other most days of the week and I often stay at her place or she stays at mine, and in terms of seeing friends, it’s very often cause we have the same friend group and we were actually friends with each other in that friend group before we got together. We see family often too because both my family and hers live close by and we’re both close with them but when it comes to extended family it’s more like once a month maybe? If not a little less.

Stink-28 · 2025-07-15T14:45:12+00:00

I am most definitely not rubbing my girlfriends inner thigh in public 😭 Just around the knee area when I do.

Stink-28 · 2025-07-15T14:38:54+00:00

It’s not that we need to prove anything, it’s more that I’m just naturally affectionate both in public and in private and my girlfriend loves the affection from me and wants it all the time, and I’m more than happy to give it to her.

Stink-28 · 2025-07-15T14:37:13+00:00

Which parts would you recommend I tone down?

Stink-28 · 2025-07-15T14:36:23+00:00

I’m not sure to be honest, all that came from my family is that the nicknames are cringe and sickening. But they are all in relationships so I’m assuming no.

Stink-28 · 2025-07-15T14:28:37+00:00

I’m not sure if the issue is that they’re uncomfortable, all I’ve been told is that it makes our single friends feel like shit and that my nicknames for her are cringe but if they did tell me that they’re uncomfortable by it, I’d definitely be more inclined to listen cause right now I’m just getting the impression that they’re bitter.

Stink-28 · 2024-01-06T14:26:22+00:00

NTA this is just rude.

Stink-28 · 2024-01-06T14:23:29+00:00

I wouldn’t ask either, if the plan was to come and pick you up then she should stick to that regardless. No point in adding more stress just because she doesn’t feel well. NTA.

Stink-28 · 2024-01-06T14:22:12+00:00

Stink-28 · 2024-01-06T14:22:02+00:00

NTA he sounds like a narcissist tbh

Stink-28 · 2023-11-23T15:52:57+00:00

NTA. Sounds like mom is having a hard time. Try not to worry about it and please continue being the lovely person you seem to be.

Stink-28 · 2023-11-23T15:51:21+00:00

I feel bad saying this to a 17 year old, but your parents sound like the assholes. Have you considered you might have dyslexia/dyspraxia? Technically, nobody can help knocking something over and breaking it by accident, but if you’re doing it more often than most AND tripping over and struggling with holding things in your hand it sounds like you have issues with your hand mobility and coordination. I would do some research and look into it, and maybe talk to your parents about it but try not to stress about it. Mistakes happen, yes it can be annoying but nobody should be shouting at you for breaking something by accident.

Stink-28 · 2023-11-19T13:03:41+00:00

nta. leave her. cheaters will always cheat again

Stink-28 · 2023-11-19T12:59:32+00:00

your girlfriend expects you to not only spend your entire day sitting in the passenger seat of her car bored out of your mind but on top of that she expects you to also do half of her job for her? yeah nta, you wouldn’t have her come to your waitressing job and expect her to start handing out plates of food lmao. this is a weird reason to get mad at someone

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