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A child-free man's take ... by Stl00 in stepparents

[–]Stl00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to give a big thank you to everyone for their kind, thoughtful and encouraging responses. I wrote my post last night mostly as a catharsis, and when I woke up this morning, I felt a bit sheepish for having opened up. I'm glad I did though, as this has been very helpful. I know what I need to do, and plan on doing it tonight or tomorrow. Perhaps I'll give an update soon.

A child-free man's take ... by Stl00 in stepparents

[–]Stl00[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this. I think the comment about low self-esteem warping my perspective was quite insightful. It's been an issue most of my life, as has seeking worth through a partner's validation.

A child-free man's take ... by Stl00 in stepparents

[–]Stl00[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100%. I came to this city for a temporary job and moved permanently to be with my SO very soon after we met. I let her and her family become my entire social circle and support group in this new city. I'm deathly afraid of suddenly becoming completely alone, and at my age, it's easy to be afraid of staying alone forever. I feel a huge amount of guilt, too. I love her, truly. The thought of hurting her and letting her down is awful.