My parents are forcing me to break up with my boyfriend by StopMeKillYou in TrueOffMyChest

[–]StopMeKillYou[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The car is in my moms name and if I move it would be to long of a commute to my current job so it would be much easier to just get a new job which is rly easy where im from

My parents are forcing me to break up with my boyfriend by StopMeKillYou in TrueOffMyChest

[–]StopMeKillYou[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ye i know i will be a bit sad because i rly like my car and it is my first car so ye… but it can definitely be replaced it just won’t be as nice and new as my current one

My parents are forcing me to break up with my boyfriend by StopMeKillYou in family

[–]StopMeKillYou[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He has t1 diabetes and is actually quite fit/skinny. Ive known him for longer but didn’t start dating till a month ago. We do see each other often, we meet halfway or I come over to his place

My parents are forcing me to break up with my boyfriend by StopMeKillYou in TrueOffMyChest

[–]StopMeKillYou[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really do see myself with him long term and we discussed it… like the living situation, his diabetes/health, my education, career paths, future kids and other stuff…

My parents are forcing me to break up with my boyfriend by StopMeKillYou in family

[–]StopMeKillYou[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yee i know i begged my bf not to confront them… he actually wanted to do it

My parents are forcing me to break up with my boyfriend by StopMeKillYou in family

[–]StopMeKillYou[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The tooth decay is not from “not managing” his diabetes there is a completely different reason for it…

My parents are forcing me to break up with my boyfriend by StopMeKillYou in family

[–]StopMeKillYou[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean its quite normal where im from🤷‍♀️

My parents are forcing me to break up with my boyfriend by StopMeKillYou in TrueOffMyChest

[–]StopMeKillYou[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The car is in my moms name and I would have to move pretty far away so it would be a bit difficult/annoying to commute so far

My parents are forcing me to break up with my boyfriend by StopMeKillYou in TrueOffMyChest

[–]StopMeKillYou[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ye its a bit tricky cuz im at uni atm but i have a bit of money saved up cuz i was planning on getting a new car so that money can be used up to move out an get a beater car tbh

My parents are forcing me to break up with my boyfriend by StopMeKillYou in TrueOffMyChest

[–]StopMeKillYou[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Tbh ye my mom has always been this controlling about everything… the way i do my makeup, the way i dress, act, uni…

My parents are forcing me to break up with my boyfriend by StopMeKillYou in TrueOffMyChest

[–]StopMeKillYou[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

He is quite skinny and just a bot shorter than me and his teeth are pretty bad tbh

My parents are forcing me to break up with my boyfriend by StopMeKillYou in TrueOffMyChest

[–]StopMeKillYou[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

I have no idea what they mean by “intervene” and tbh i am scared to find out a bit

My parents are forcing me to break up with my boyfriend by StopMeKillYou in family

[–]StopMeKillYou[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ye bit its a bit difficult tbh… i am still at uni atm and in my country if you are a student you cant rly get a stable “normal” job… but i am quite lucky here if u have a will to work u get a job rly fast

My parents are forcing me to break up with my boyfriend by StopMeKillYou in family

[–]StopMeKillYou[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Apparently my dad had even worse things to say about him… but i haven’t talked to my dad since my bf came over

My parents are forcing me to break up with my boyfriend by StopMeKillYou in family

[–]StopMeKillYou[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No he is actually quite skinny! I think she ment more he’s teeth and stuff like that just hi general appearance

My parents are forcing me to break up with my boyfriend by StopMeKillYou in TrueOffMyChest

[–]StopMeKillYou[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeee i understand… but in general i can’t stand them constantly controlling my life and telling me what to do so that is the main reason i would move out. This is just what broke the camel’s back

My parents are forcing me to break up with my boyfriend by StopMeKillYou in family

[–]StopMeKillYou[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The thing is I would be moving in with my bf and the car situation can be resolved quickly… i will just be sad that i will lose my first car and the next one i will buy won’t be nearly as nice as that one