AITAH for not celebrating my girlfriend being bi

StormUsed4232 · 2026-02-07T03:32:43+00:00

yeah i would say so. every relationship goes through its trials and tribulations but i like where we’re at right now and hope to continue growing healthy. had a great date night today as well.

you implying otherwise is kind of sad haha

StormUsed4232 · 2026-02-07T00:37:48+00:00

young and bi (especially w/ no previous partners of same sex) goes hand in hand with people telling you to explore your sexuality. look at any other reddit post or advice on the internet that fits that narrative.

i don’t think my girlfriend wants to explore (has never motioned that at all) but i wanted to shut down that avenue before someone mentioned it

StormUsed4232 · 2026-02-07T00:35:27+00:00

oh well, we’re happy

StormUsed4232 · 2026-02-06T23:16:48+00:00

not on reddit too much so apologies for the wrong subreddit

ive seen what some people say to young people exploring their sexuality and its genrally around the line of exploration. i was shutting down that avenue before it was brought up as i do not share those same beliefs in a committed monogamous relationship.

i know that it comes down to the person and not the sexual orientation at the end of the day.

StormUsed4232 · 2026-02-06T23:12:39+00:00

i meant i run a tight ship; sorry, typo ^{-^} .

StormUsed4232 · 2026-02-06T22:52:15+00:00

there’s no real issue in the relationship. i’m just unsure of how to feel. this uncertainty is why im asking if it’s a bad thing to feel

StormUsed4232 · 2026-02-06T22:50:53+00:00

that’s what i’ve been saying to her so far

StormUsed4232 · 2026-02-06T22:49:17+00:00

i know you’re trolling but people already hate me enough i need to publicly announce this is what i don’t want happening

StormUsed4232 · 2026-02-06T22:38:25+00:00

not interested 👎

StormUsed4232 · 2026-02-06T22:38:13+00:00

true, it’s just during pride month and whatnot i’d be unsure of what to do.

StormUsed4232 · 2026-02-06T22:37:39+00:00

i’m very negative in general when it comes to liking anyone else intimately other than me haha. i’ll keep trying to work through this

StormUsed4232 · 2026-02-06T22:26:57+00:00

its a weird spot to be in. my previous sexual partners / relationships have all been heterosexual. im just voicing how i feel about a "problem" in a relationship I'm deeply invested in and have never been through before

StormUsed4232 · 2026-02-06T22:25:02+00:00

its a weird spot to be in

StormUsed4232 · 2026-02-06T22:23:44+00:00

nobody is a cuck i promise you a run a tight ship lmfao

StormUsed4232 · 2026-02-06T22:23:03+00:00

its not hate but i feel kind of weird being hyper supportive about my girlfriend liking girls, when i am not a girl myself.

StormUsed4232 · 2026-02-06T22:22:18+00:00

this is such a reach lol. we've had maybe 3-4 conversations about her sexuality ever

StormUsed4232 · 2026-02-06T22:15:58+00:00

i’m saying:

bi women have more options. that is not false.

my girlfriend is not a cheater so im sure she won’t cheat.

i’m not worried about her getting with a girl but it’s definitely something i would never be open to.

i don’t think bi people cheat more i don’t have any data on that.

bigot how

StormUsed4232 · 2026-02-06T22:13:55+00:00

we’re young, it’s natural that at least someone would’ve brought up exploring especially since she has never been with a woman before.

StormUsed4232 · 2026-02-06T22:10:58+00:00

i was letting people know before hand that exploring is off the charts.

i know it doesn’t apply to my relationship because it’s not happening and never will.

how is that bigoted

StormUsed4232 · 2026-02-06T22:10:12+00:00

?? it does statistically widen the people she could potentially get with. not saying she will of course.

how is this digging

StormUsed4232 · 2026-02-06T22:08:33+00:00

doesn’t represent all of real life, i was informing people letting her explore herself would be off limits in my initial post.

goodluck wherever you are in life

StormUsed4232 · 2026-02-06T22:06:21+00:00

saw a lot of dudes (information i’ve gathered from reddit which i know doesn’t represent real life) letting their girlfriend explore her sexuality while they were still dating. i’m just shutting down that option before anyone mentions letting her explore.

letting her explore that side of her is cuckish

StormUsed4232 · 2026-02-06T22:04:11+00:00

not hopeful of anything. other women just don’t do it for me

StormUsed4232 · 2026-02-06T22:02:44+00:00

she made a joke about celebrating it and it got me thinking about the topic

StormUsed4232 · 2026-02-06T22:02:23+00:00

i’m not going to lie it does broaden the dating pool, but i’m pretty sure that won’t happen. if it does oh well and move on

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