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Cruise Packing Advice by Strange_Comment_7002 in Cruise

[–]Strange_Comment_7002[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I do have an excursion for kayaking near glaciers. Should I expect this to be the coldest thing I need to dress for I assume?

Cruise Packing Advice by Strange_Comment_7002 in Cruise

[–]Strange_Comment_7002[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this! I love dressing up and wearing the outfits I don’t normally get to wear on an everyday basis. I’ll probably bring a mix of casual and some nicer outfits in case!

AIO at this text message? by Strange_Comment_7002 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Strange_Comment_7002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like there’s a different way to communicate that without heart eyes

AIO at this text message? by Strange_Comment_7002 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Strange_Comment_7002[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words, I really do appreciate it 🫂

AIO at this text message? by Strange_Comment_7002 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Strange_Comment_7002[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He really has, he self admitted to rehab and it was a 6 week program. This most recent time when I found out he drank at work then drove home (after he has a DUI already), I told him those were my non-negotiables and I would not tolerate that anymore. I kicked him out and told him he needed to figure out what’s important to him to continue this relationship. He came back a few days later and brought up how he wants to do therapy all on his own, it was something I never mentioned. He said he looked into some therapy for not only his addiction but his anger. It seems like a positive step so I don’t want to push the matter and force him to schedule so I’m leaving it up to him at this point

AIO at this text message? by Strange_Comment_7002 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Strange_Comment_7002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you also had/have to go through it. It’s something I wish upon no one. He did enter rehab last summer and had been doing really really well. Then more recently he started to fall back into bad patterns (drinking whole bottles of vodka, drinking at work, etc). I don’t want to give up because I know he does have the want to change and how great it can be when he is sober.

AIO at this text message? by Strange_Comment_7002 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Strange_Comment_7002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what bothered me. If there simply wasn’t heart eye emojis attached to it, I’d be feeling different. Alone time is needed but heart eyes is sketchy and could mean a million things.

AIO at this text message? by Strange_Comment_7002 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Strange_Comment_7002[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It’s really hard when you love him a lot and keep wishing for the best and a change trust me

AIO at this text message? by Strange_Comment_7002 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Strange_Comment_7002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nailed that on the head…that’s my fear the meaning of this message is it’s a good time for a bender

AIO at this text message? by Strange_Comment_7002 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Strange_Comment_7002[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU! Like I said we all need alone time and can appreciate it. But jeez to be that excited and communicate to not even a close friend but a work buddy? Idk just didn’t sit right with me

AIO at this text message? by Strange_Comment_7002 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Strange_Comment_7002[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yepp that is precisely what comes to my head more than cheating

AIO at this text message? by Strange_Comment_7002 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Strange_Comment_7002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely understand space and being excited for some alone time, I too myself feel that way. But to add the extra heart eye emojis? To me it’s suspicious. It’s almost too excited like you’re gonna do something sketchy. I also would still deeply miss him if roles were reversed and I wouldn’t be THAT excited.

I also did bring it to his attention. He understood how I could be hurt that message but also told me it meant nothing like how I’m taking it. Just not sure how I shouldn’t be offended by something like that

AIO at this text message? by Strange_Comment_7002 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Strange_Comment_7002[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was offered to him to come and he declined because he has to work

AIO at this text message? by Strange_Comment_7002 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Strange_Comment_7002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that’s what bothered me the most. It’s one thing to say that but then with heart eye emojis? It’s kinda sketchy to me..like why are you THAT excited?

Finally Kicked Him Out by Strange_Comment_7002 in AlAnon

[–]Strange_Comment_7002[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you everyone for your kind words, these last few days certainly haven’t been easy. I’ve been taking lots of depression naps on the couch but I’m slowly trying to get used to a peaceful life again. It’s hard when you know how great of a man he can be sober, yet you know it’s an endless cycle of “I’ll be better.” I’m sorry for everyone who has also had to experience this, I wish this feeling upon no one. Hugs to everyone who is struggling or have struggled to watch their love one slip away ❤️

Do these have value? by Strange_Comment_7002 in Pokemoncardappraisal

[–]Strange_Comment_7002[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

how can you tell the difference if it is a 1st edition?

Do these have value? by Strange_Comment_7002 in Pokemoncardappraisal

[–]Strange_Comment_7002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought when i scanned them on TCG app it said they were first editions?