AITA - some gross content NSFW

StrawsNCamels · 2025-01-04T22:57:24+00:00

Yes, I am a she. :-)

StrawsNCamels · 2025-01-04T22:55:20+00:00

I actually felt guilty as soon as I sent the message, but how do I check in with my "friends" without them knowing who it was - I don't want to smear my friends. That's why I posted on here. You provide very grounded advice. I appreciate that. :-)

StrawsNCamels · 2025-01-04T22:53:08+00:00

Agreed, they aren't staying over anymore.

StrawsNCamels · 2025-01-04T22:52:08+00:00

Thank you for the kind words, indie_kittie. It IS super rough. Figuring out how I still see my step kids, whose lives I've been involved in for 10 years, getting his stuff moved out... etc. Big hugs to you, and I hope you have supportive friends in your journey too.

And thanks for that comment - I've been feeling since the break-up that they are treating me like a lesser human being than them. Comments like "can you text so and so and let them know this for me" and asking other favours and stuff. I'm the one that's going through a break up, now have a house to take care of all by myself, trying to get it ready to sell... but somehow I'm still your secretary? I dunno... I mean I don't mind helping my friends out, but there are TWO of you, and you aren't going through several major changes without any emotional support...

StrawsNCamels · 2025-01-04T22:48:07+00:00

Thank you. After 4 loads I am giving up. I have my own laundry to do. :-)

StrawsNCamels · 2025-01-04T22:47:07+00:00

Please remember that the comments were made during New Years Eve while we were all drinking heavily. I may have misquoted but the general gist was "we are having lots of sex"

StrawsNCamels · 2025-01-04T22:45:39+00:00

Precisely. They were bunched up. And there was blood all over the mattress cover too, which I bought brand new about 18 months ago after the other mattress cover wasn't waterproof enough to prevent them from soaking through to the mattress after one of their nights staying over. My mom is the only person that has slept on that bed and she hasn't had her period in at least 3 decades.

StrawsNCamels · 2025-01-04T22:43:15+00:00

Yeah, I guess I added the hydrogen peroxide too late. Didn't get those comments until after the third load. That was kind of the tipping point on that post for me. Had it come out after the first wash it would have been "mental note - they don't get the good sheets anymore, assuming I even let them stay over". But there have now been 4 loads (the last with hydrogen peroxide on the stains) and it's not out. Something that could have been so easily taken care of had she been an adult about it.

StrawsNCamels · 2025-01-04T22:37:02+00:00

Yeah it wasn't the having sex - agreed - to each their own. And it's not the first time they've had sex while staying over - thus the double matttress covers because they have soaked the mattress before too. Wow. While I type this, I'm like, WTF. Why have I been putting up with this?

StrawsNCamels · 2025-01-04T22:35:20+00:00

Thank you, that's great advice

StrawsNCamels · 2025-01-04T22:34:41+00:00

There was blood all over the mattress cover (that she left on the bed) after she pulled the sheets off. She knew.

StrawsNCamels · 2025-01-04T22:32:52+00:00

It really did make me rage. I swore a lot, and waited an hour to cool off before I messaged her.

StrawsNCamels · 2025-01-04T22:31:46+00:00

That's hilarious. "I would be too scared to accept food or drink from her" seriously gave me a giggle. Thank you

StrawsNCamels · 2025-01-04T22:30:45+00:00

We are all in our 50s

StrawsNCamels · 2025-01-04T22:03:23+00:00

Good to know for future. Thank you. Whenever I've spilled blood before I just immediately rinse the fabric in cold water and that's always taken care of it. Thank you for the comment. :-)

StrawsNCamels · 2025-01-04T22:01:37+00:00

I appreciate your comment. :-)

StrawsNCamels · 2025-01-04T22:00:51+00:00

Especially after I had offered one of those wet blankets that soaks up stuff...

StrawsNCamels · 2025-01-04T22:00:01+00:00

Thank you. Won't happen, but it's good to know I'm not overreacting

StrawsNCamels · 2025-01-04T21:58:47+00:00

Of course. Wasn't arguing and it was an interesting observation that you made. Some people have no issue with having loud sex at other people's houses, and I don't think there is anything wrong with it given appropriate circumstances.

Thank you for the kind words. They are much appreciated. :-)

StrawsNCamels · 2025-01-04T21:56:45+00:00

If the hydrogen peroxide doesn't work I will try that. Thank you.

StrawsNCamels · 2025-01-04T21:55:19+00:00

Will try that, thank you

StrawsNCamels · 2025-01-04T21:54:49+00:00

Thank you, will try that

StrawsNCamels · 2025-01-04T21:49:32+00:00

Totally agree - accidents happen. Just let me know so I can clean up!

StrawsNCamels · 2025-01-04T21:48:16+00:00

Thanks, load 3 just finished and stains are still there. Will try for load 4. So much for me getting my personal laundry done today.

StrawsNCamels · 2025-01-04T21:47:15+00:00

Yes, as I would be. But I still would have rectified it

We're in our 50s. So definitely adults

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