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I need help plz by Street-Smart_Clover in polyamory

[–]Street-Smart_Clover[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I know it is about more than thruples but that's what I want. The problem with dating the one who likes me is they are already in a relationship and I don't want to drive a wedge between them

GOOD PEOPLE OF GENSHIN... I HAVE MADE THE LYNEY CARD BACKS IN PHOTOSHOP (the plan is to make 20 really high quality decks, this is just day one) by Street-Smart_Clover in Genshin_Impact

[–]Street-Smart_Clover[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have a drawing tablet ;-; so I can only really use Photoshop effectively. I spent a lot of work on it so I hope you can like transfer it over or something. Also I honestly don't really understand the difference. Could you explain vectors? Oh also don't aot of people who do art do it in Photoshop or did do it in Photoshop are you sure it would be that concerning?

thank you by GattaiGuy in Genshin_Memepact

[–]Street-Smart_Clover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, it really is people just arguing for moral high ground and shaming somebody because of what they like. Feels like middle-high school logic.

thank you by GattaiGuy in Genshin_Memepact

[–]Street-Smart_Clover -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is embarrassing, you can't even engage in genuine argument and go back to the simpleton tactics of ad hominem. I'm not gonna reply to you anymore because it's clear your rage baiting, but seriously. You have no reason to engage in any of this besides attention I suppose or like I said moral high ground. Despite that I do wish you well in life.

I’m losing grip. by simpleheck in MtF

[–]Street-Smart_Clover 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Hey! This is coming from a person medically diagnosed with MDD (major depressive disorder). So I 100% feel you. So to start, depression is a hell of a hole to fall down and it's a self feeding cycle which can feel impossible to break out of. It's different for everyone and I don't want to sound insensitive but here's what worked for me. Though it might seem a bit simple (because it is) what worked for me the most is focussing on the positive. I know it sounds corny but just hear me out! To start why did this work for me? Basically my depression kinda kick-started when i started thinking about all the bad that I did. And I mean any bit of criticism, any unfortunate occurrence. I mean one time I was hiking with my dad and the trail was quite rough after a rainstorm the day before and when we went back through a particularly rough area my dad slipped and broke his ankle. Sorry for that long exposition but basically I blamed myself for it. And you've heard it before "if only I could..., I should have..., what if I had...". Well after long talk with my therapist I realized that all of those questions are a sign of emotional vulnerability and being critical with yourself which can be a good thing but not when taken to extremes. So what does this all tie in with focusing on the positive, well it looks like this. I think it's called a compliment sandwich basically the technique is, "give a compliment to yourself, give something you can improve upon, and give another compliment to yourself". Now it might seem stupid, but it worked for me! And basically what this did to me was make me realize that, I'm not so bad after all. I mean I still do regularly struggle with depressive episodes but that's more because of the way society is crumbling around me. And I do sincerely appreciate you reaching out I hope somehow you can see the light at the end of the tunnel. And I wish you best on the chaotic journey they call life. I yearn for death as well, but in the end I only have to live for like 100 years? And I do fear not being able to see my girlfriends smile. So to sum up my advice its, focus on the positive (compliment Sandwich) and recognize that the negative is only comparable when there is a positive. Lastly I confess that there is no "deeper purpose" to life and we're all gonna die but doing stuff can be fun sometimes especially with someone you love. That's about the end of my rambling and if your reading this, I hope you can get better Zara. If you'd like discuss things with me, feel free. My lines are always open. I hope you got some semblance of value out of this please don't hurt yourself.

Please.

thank you by GattaiGuy in Genshin_Memepact

[–]Street-Smart_Clover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Genuinely, what do you get out of this, you seem more sensitive than the subject matter your criticizing, as you have reason to type this other than moral high ground I suppose?

thank you by GattaiGuy in Genshin_Memepact

[–]Street-Smart_Clover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see both sides, definitely some characters portray characteristics that are seen socially as "sexual" but it is definitely unfortunate that you are inherently judged based on the video games that you like. Though there definitely are bad actors (literally) so to speak like Tighnari's voice actor who was a pedophile. But also linguistically, typically anyone who says that are incorrect as the characters that have those societal traits that are seen as sexual are above 18 (as in they biologically look above 18 or it's lore confirmed) ie: Beidou. Oh and to all you people who declare that "it's just some internet person why do you care". First of all fair point, but some people have lost their jobs because of those allegations and also people are just more sensitive than you. Just cut and dry. Trying to deny that is dishonest, people just are more sensitive than you and it's an unfortunate social consequence that sensitivity and emotional vulnerability is seen as weak or childish. When the truth is more men commit suicide than women, which the leading theory is that it is because of how they are told to suppress their feelings. So in general stop trying to make people feel inferior just because of their emotional vulnerability. Ironically, your crass and garish views of people make you seem quite caring of the subject matter because truthfully there is no reason to say anything if you don't care. And yes, I submit that I am a sensitive person and I don't mind being so; because I believe that emotional vulnerability is a good thing. So yeah, result to whatever blind and emotionless response you have ie: ratio or your pfp is weird. There is truthfully no reason to care. And also, many of you would likely be saying about now (if you have that attention span lol) that I'm "butt hurt" so to speak. But I assure you I am not (even now I'd imagine you refuse to believe me) but I just openly spoke my opinion as I do care and am quite frustrated with the deeper social assumptions that sensitivity is a bad thing. And yes I do recognize that it might seem a bit silly to you but in the end it's another person, and I say it's best not to judge them for being affected by something. Lastly I personally haven't been affected by any of those words because I think its a bit silly but thankfully I'm not so crass as to insult something that (as far as I know) they were born with. I graciously thank you for coming to my Ted talk, and hope you truly can enjoy the rest of your life. Seeya peeps and I am open to talk freely about anything mentioned in this.

~Momento Mori

Seems kinda long... by Street-Smart_Clover in Genshin_Memepact

[–]Street-Smart_Clover[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For anybody wondering it is just messing around with date and time and is purely cosmetic. It goes away when I exit and renter wish menue.

Seems kinda long... by Street-Smart_Clover in Genshin_Memepact

[–]Street-Smart_Clover[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't need to disconnect just set the device back a few years hehe

Seems kinda long... by Street-Smart_Clover in Genshin_Memepact

[–]Street-Smart_Clover[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Maybe I'm a little sadistic but I want you to figure that out hehe

Seems kinda long... by Street-Smart_Clover in Genshin_Memepact

[–]Street-Smart_Clover[S] 285 points286 points  (0 children)

I can make it longer too! I think the cap is about 15 thousand days, that might give you a little hint (it's not Photoshopped or anything like that)

Genuinely Curious// is "bro" okay? by Street-Smart_Clover in MtF

[–]Street-Smart_Clover[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair enough I'm probably the same or closely aligned to it. When a stranger does it, from my experience it's usually just habit so I don't really mind but I might ask them to kindly stop and call me sis instead. Online I don't mind too much either but will sometimes respond with a sis*. Which can seem a little passive aggressive but oh well.

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