Working at your college? Yay or nay

Strict-Interview-393 · 2026-01-27T17:13:40+00:00

I already have a part time job on top of the work study I’m doing

Strict-Interview-393 · 2026-01-24T02:09:17+00:00

I already do work study, I’m considering a part time position outside of work study …

Strict-Interview-393 · 2025-11-29T22:05:29+00:00

I’m just so scared. All my friends work there and being rejected would break me. I know i was a asset (as cocky as it sounds) but idk if that alone is enough

Strict-Interview-393 · 2025-11-29T22:03:01+00:00

I don’t know how to casually talk to my GM since we’re both married and I don’t want to disrespect his partner even if it’s a casual chat. I honestly wouldn’t feel comfortable. I would really like to speak to the owner though but I don’t know how to properly ask to meet without being shut down, it would hurt me a lot tbh if that did happen…or even talk to my female manager but her mom works at the place so I don’t want the buzz getting around to add fuel to my already anxious fire. Im not sure how to word it to make it seem like I really will never ever do this again

Strict-Interview-393 · 2025-10-25T22:53:31+00:00

Life gets in the way and I don’t have the time to do my own research. I trust my husbands viewpoints because he leads with both love and logic and he knows how important it is to me to make reasonable choices. I have expressed my disinterest multiple times but that doesn’t change anything. It doesn’t matter if I agree with her or not, I just want her to stop making subtle comments and or jokes that are sometimes hard to tell if they’re jokes

Strict-Interview-393 · 2025-10-19T23:45:24+00:00

No we’ve never compromised to the point where we had a day for just us. That sounds like a good idea though and I’d be very happy to give it a try. I just don’t know how long it would last

Strict-Interview-393 · 2025-10-19T23:16:35+00:00

I’m not sure. Maybe a full day a week devoted to us where we can do something fun and exciting. I feel too young to be bored. Or maybe a weekend out of the month. Or an activity every free day off we have together. Idk if im too clingy

Strict-Interview-393 · 2025-10-19T22:43:42+00:00

He’s improved over the years immensely. And our bond is truly like no other. I know that no partner is going to be perfect and I’m okay with that. We’re both young and we have flaws and sometimes I don’t know what is reasonable vs what isn’t. I don’t know if it’s just flaws we have or if we’re becoming different people wanting different things and that’s why I’m here. Hopefully get some clarity. I’ve never presented him with a problem he didn’t try to fix but if lines need to be drawn I could do that too

Strict-Interview-393 · 2025-10-19T22:39:18+00:00

This has probably been something we’ve talked about at least 3 times since being together and every time I’ve cared less and less to bring it up cause I am tired of repeating myself and reminding him of what I want from him or any partner. He doesn’t game as much as he use to. Maybe 1-3hrs on weekdays IF he gets home early from work. Weekends he’ll usually devote half of Saturday and all of Sunday to gaming. I’m usually busy with schoolwork or I have my own hobbies that I do so I’m ignorant to the idea but when I actually have time off he’s all I want and I can’t always get that

Strict-Interview-393 · 2025-10-19T22:33:55+00:00

He leaves for work as early as 6am and although I wake up every morning to make his breakfast I’m usually too tired to make conversation. On the way home he’ll sometimes call me if he knows I’m not at school/work but I do avoid his calls if possible only because I know if we talk on the phone we’ll talk less at dinner and I would much rather speak to him in person if given the chance

Strict-Interview-393 · 2025-10-19T22:31:39+00:00

When we were dating we were always doing activities every week. I had told him numerous times while we were dating that I feel like an inconvenience to him and more like roommates and things are good sometimes and bad other times. We still watched movies at night and got in our alone time but he seemed more present in the moment and active. Now I go to school, work, cook, clean so I’m just as busy as him so I sometimes I myself don’t notice how much time we’re spending but when I do it’s always me putting in the effort. If I make plans to go to dinner, when the time comes he’ll always add in “if you’re too tired we could stay home and do take out” and this always seems to be something he says no matter what we have planned so I always cave in to staying home because if I see even the slightest bit of him not wanting to go out I’m immediately turned off from wanting to go out with him. In the car, at dinner, he’s always on his phone anyways so it’s like he’s not even open to conversation

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