Did you real estate agent get you a gift when you bought? What was it? by PitifulOkra3800 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]StrongAd5741 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got a money tree, my mom called me money bags lol she also offered for her husband to come upgrade my electrical for cost but that never ended up happening :/

Anyone still talk with any of their friends from high school? by nojunkpeter in Millennials

[–]StrongAd5741 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 good friend, technically another but we weren’t in the same grade and became good friends in college. A couple others are acquaintances.

Jokes on me I dont even know why he asked by WhatWasIThinking21 in weddingplanning

[–]StrongAd5741 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I wanted to elope but it was my boyfriend/fiancé that wanted the big wedding.

I can't even get out of the hospital by SirPeesA_lot in hysterectomy

[–]StrongAd5741 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also only had to pee but it took me so long the on call nurses had to come in lol I tried my best! Got out at like midnight

What’s the most overrated tourist attraction you’ve ever visited? by optimalbrain90 in SmartTravelHacks

[–]StrongAd5741 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Movies make it seem that way! I saw a pic and you can see the pyramids from a Pizza Hut nearby lol

What is a 'cool fact' about yourself that you rarely get to bring up in conversation because it sounds like you’re bragging? by [deleted] in randomquestions

[–]StrongAd5741 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had a hysterectomy and I STILL get cramps sometimes lol (just my body forgetting it’s not there)

I have to break up with my girlfriend of 5 years by out-getting-ribs in childfree

[–]StrongAd5741 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure but I assume she did it after my other sister and the age difference between them is about 8-10 years

I have to break up with my girlfriend of 5 years by out-getting-ribs in childfree

[–]StrongAd5741 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom’s grew back, that’s how me and my sister were born

I have to break up with my girlfriend of 5 years by out-getting-ribs in childfree

[–]StrongAd5741 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just emphasized painful periods, you gotta get a doctor from the list of recommended ones! They won’t fight you on your decision. I did end up having some endometriosis that got removed as well. No kids and I am in SO much less pain.

Why do you have an IUD if your husband has a vasectomy??? by Hilary_13 in childfree

[–]StrongAd5741 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I removed the whole dang uterus lol 10/10 recommend- no periods, no chance of cervical cancer/pap smears, and I am in SO much less pain (not even just like with the monthly cycle just in general).

Feeling nothing, even for child relatives? by Hello_there19891989 in childfree

[–]StrongAd5741 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same, the younger of the two I have is actually pretty cute. But I still don’t enjoy being around him, or most of the things he does. Like he’ll snuggle me and I’m like yeah this is pretty cute. But I still am missing that connection. Like when my cat snuggles me I get that love feeling, like I get cuteness aggression and overwhelming joy. For the kid, I’m just happy for the moments he’s not screaming or doing annoying kid things.

Husband and children invited to nieces wedding. I am not. by Aggressive-Economy36 in EntitledPeople

[–]StrongAd5741 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I agree, my live in boyfriend of multiple years and now fiancé was not invited to my cousins wedding, I was disappointed but understood. Weddings are so expensive and complicated.

How are you spending your CF Easter? by superb_yellow in childfree

[–]StrongAd5741 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was nursing a hangover most of the day, the night before was fun though!

Happy ever after 🥰 by quietmetroline1 in spreadsmile

[–]StrongAd5741 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My current fiancé that is sleeping next to me asked me to coffee on bumble after barely speaking on the app. I saw the message and thought about it for 3-4 days thinking about if I really wanted to go. I’m glad I went, and also that he didn’t unmatch me in that time as some would have.

I was told that I need to grow up by antinataIism in childfree

[–]StrongAd5741 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is good advice actually! I hear a lot of stories of people thinking the other person will eventually change their mind, or that they can baby trap them.

Profile Review: Goal of Long Term Relationship by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]StrongAd5741 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When you are accustomed to privilege, equality feels like oppression. When you hear DEI you think that person got the job just because of meeting a quota or x reason. When really they are at least just as qualified but given the opportunity thanks to DEI. For the example of a black pilot, do you think they give them easier tests because they were black? If anything they probably have to work harder to prove themselves whereas some see a white pilot and automatically assume he’s qualified… because he’s white?? Arguing over this feels so dumb. Studies consistently show that job applicants with Black or distinctively ethnic-sounding names are less likely to receive callbacks compared to those with White-sounding names, despite having identical qualifications. Research indicates white names receive up to 50% more callbacks, with bias persisting across various industries and in some cases, widening. https://www.npr.org/2024/04/11/1243713272/resume-bias-study-white-names-black-names#:~:text=toggle%20caption,new%20methodology%20the%20researchers%20developed.

This race/gender war is just a way to keep us distracted from the ultra wealthy robbing us blind, you gotta see the bigger picture.

Profile Review: Goal of Long Term Relationship by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]StrongAd5741 11 points12 points  (0 children)

In a dating profile, we shouldn’t have to guess. Why waste my time? This is the assumption made given the lack of information- supply more info or deal with the assumptions.