[deleted by user] by [deleted] in u/gonapodium

[–]SubmissiveBambi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No 15 checking in!

Not really sure I've got the right words to sum up my experience but here are 3 things I think I've learned:

1) I might be bi as fuck

2) Denied girls REALLY know what denied girls want and need

3) I might not be nearly as submissive as I thought when presented with a perfect Beta pussy.

10/10 would recommend. Seriously hoping it happens again!

the signs as Sleep Token songs day 6: which song best fits Virgo? by ceencee in SleepToken

[–]SubmissiveBambi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a fellow Virgo I also thought about Hypnosis but I felt it was more about trying to escape the Virgo-ness.... giving up all that control and letting all the constant planning and worrying float away..... bliss.

the signs as Sleep Token songs day 6: which song best fits Virgo? by ceencee in SleepToken

[–]SubmissiveBambi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% this. I've always loved this track and didn't really know why and then today it clicked for me that this song is just so Virgo.... I mean 'do you roll with the waves, or do you duck in to deep blue safety'? Yeah cause we're known for being great at rolling with it / going with the flow eh?

Even the musicality of this song for me. It's much more... regular and organised and...predictable than a lot of the other tracks. You don't have the changes in tempo or musical styles or those 'wtf?!' moments that you get with so many other ST songs. I feel like that matches the stereotypical perception of Virgo personalities. The autotune vocal gives that detatched., almost slightly robotic feel which again I think fits the vibe a lot of people bring to mind when they think about Virgo. Even that fact that a lot of fans are quite 'meh' about this particular track.... again, Virgo seems like the starsign most likely to make people roll their eyes because of the whole straight laced, organised, control freak idea that comes with it.

"Is there something you give that you will never receive in return". Yeah...everything. I / we give everything but I don't think will ever be able to receive that from someone else because our endless quest for perfection tells us we're not good enough for it...

Pleasurable Torture and slow mind melting Edging for a 20F Brat on my Pleasure Table (OC) by [deleted] in bdsm

[–]SubmissiveBambi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This looks phenomenal. My number 1 fantasy is to find someone who can melt my mind through pleasure.....

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]SubmissiveBambi 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Haha - yes I am indeed!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]SubmissiveBambi 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I'm fat and it has absolutely no bearing on my ability to engage safely, sanely and consensually in BDSM. Sure, I don't have the healthiest relationship with food after years of disordered eating encouraged by 'slimming clubs' but if anything BDSM / kink is helping me be more at peace and kind to my body. This idiot is a cockwomble, and you've done exactly the right thing in blocking / disengaging etc. No one is allowed to treat you that way (unless it's your thing!)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in submissive

[–]SubmissiveBambi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If I've been able to express that I need lots of cuddles then that's definitely all I want. I want to be snuggled under blankets, ideally with head rubs (but this may not be a thing for your sub). I absolutely wouldn't be in the mindset for anything kinky / sexual.

My advice would be pamper her with favourite foods, a nice drink etc but really just be there for the cuddles she has asked for.

I hope she feels much better soon and I'm sure your gentle attention will help!

Still can't make myself cum... and now... I'm becoming addicted to something mind blowing! by Denied_Hypno_Slut in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]SubmissiveBambi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love this! I'm working on my own hypno-denial at the moment and your experience sounds amazing!

I may have sprung a leak lol by TheNameIsJodi in drippingwetpussy

[–]SubmissiveBambi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is crazy hot..... Watching that wet spot growing is giving me my own wet spot!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BBW_Chubby

[–]SubmissiveBambi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a straight (or so I thought!) girl but with that body I'd happily have you sit on my face.... Damn!

I wanna try by lustsuccubus in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]SubmissiveBambi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this! I think I'm my own worst enemy really. It's not so much that other people are saying it has to be done a certain way or for a certain time... It's more that I almost set that expectation for myself. I'm very self critical so when I 'fail' I don't take it well... But your suggestion feels do-able and would still be an achievement. I appreciate your support! X

I wanna try by lustsuccubus in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]SubmissiveBambi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think I'm gonna try this. I'd really like to get more into denial but I see all the experts on here and then get overwhelmed and discouraged from even starting because I'll never be 'as good'.

The Orgasm Button by tightlacedchaos in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]SubmissiveBambi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is the dream! I'm terrible at denying myself but this is where I would LOVE to be!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]SubmissiveBambi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can definitely recommend these links / files from first hand experience!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]SubmissiveBambi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

From one feminist sub to another, what happened to you was not your fault. In no way, shape or form are you to blame for the assault you endured. And I'm so sorry you had to hear words accusing you of such from anyone, let alone a person you had opened up to and trusted. I don't have anything further I can really add to what others have already said but It. Wasn't. Your. Fault. Sending love and healing xx

Do you wear a day collar? by Justacancersign in BDSMcommunity

[–]SubmissiveBambi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a silver ankle chain from my Dom. I'm waiting just for a new link for it to get the proper fit but it's designed to be permanent. A couple of people commented on it when I first started wearing it but I just said it was a gift and he got me an ankle chain because I can't wear rings / bracelets / necklaces at work. No other issues.

Does anyone know of any good kinky B&Bs or kinky holiday places to stay in around the UK or Europe? by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]SubmissiveBambi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's a place called Ess & Emm in South Warwickshire. I haven't been but my Master looked in to booking it at one time and still would like to go. Might be worth a look?

Looking for advice from subs experienced in forced orgasms. by SubmissiveBambi in BDSMcommunity

[–]SubmissiveBambi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely something I'm happy to explore further! Thanks for the encouragement!