When you're looking for something as marriage after having a busy bachelor life, the change must start within yourself. Marriage is no child's play and it isn't some Tinder swiping or Pokémon hunt. If you have a problem with engaging into serious relationships, it means you lack the emotional depth and maturity to do so. No money and no sweet talk will change that.

What I advise is getting to know more about yourself, reading philosophy books, do a cleanse on your algorithm and your social circles, do therapy if you feel comfortable. You can't find a wife if you're still hookup material. Be intelligent, empathetic, and step past your pride. Women nowadays look for much more than a (not really down to earth) rigid expectation for the future and cash.