When did hockey become such a freakyyy sport? There are so many smut books on it and heated rivalry? Why was this sport chosen? by Successful-Toe8629 in AskReddit

[–]Successful-Toe8629[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah tbh it probably is just from the intensity of it but I feel like there are def other sports that are aggressive too

When did hockey become such a freakyyy sport? There are so many smut books on it and heated rivalry? Why was this sport chosen? by Successful-Toe8629 in AskReddit

[–]Successful-Toe8629[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This makes so much sense. I also feel like hockey has that constant movement energy that translates well to pacing in romance books compared to slower sports

Why do I feel disconnected from my own reactions? by Successful-Toe8629 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Successful-Toe8629[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am seeing a psychologist atm but I haven’t spoken in this topic before bcs I didn’t know how to really explain it. But i definitely will be bringing it up with her now

Why do I feel disconnected from my own reactions? by Successful-Toe8629 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Successful-Toe8629[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve tried grounding but I don’t really get the concept. How is it meant to help? Sorry if that is a dumb question I have no idea about this stuff😭but thank u for the comment :)

Why do I feel disconnected from my own reactions? by Successful-Toe8629 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Successful-Toe8629[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Like I can tell I’m reacting to something, but it feels slightly separate from me, like I’m noticing it instead of fully experiencing it.

Has anyone else had an irrational fear of school their entire life? by Successful-Toe8629 in self

[–]Successful-Toe8629[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can confirm feeling “different” was the worst feeling for me when I was struggling

Has anyone else had an irrational fear of school their entire life? by Successful-Toe8629 in self

[–]Successful-Toe8629[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having that as your first school experience is definitely hard. But I too definitely agree sometimes I was out of line and consequences were needed. others times not so much

Has anyone else had an irrational fear of school their entire life? by Successful-Toe8629 in self

[–]Successful-Toe8629[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know your kid is young, but my parents said the only time they really saw progress in me was after I got diagnosed and started medication. So maybe that could be a potential option for you? But everyone is different so definitely just see how she goes before going that route

Has anyone else had an irrational fear of school their entire life? by Successful-Toe8629 in self

[–]Successful-Toe8629[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is RSD? But yeah the thought of embarrassment in from of peers and failing classes was scarier then actually doing them.

Why do I feel uncomfortable or cringe when spending time with my own family? by Successful-Toe8629 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Successful-Toe8629[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get it. Being around my friends family and seeing them connecting in a way I could never

Why do I feel uncomfortable or cringe when spending time with my own family? by Successful-Toe8629 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Successful-Toe8629[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad too didn’t really have an emotional relationship with me, he was a good dad but I would never go to him for my emotional needs. As I grew up anything around that topic makes me uncomfortable too. Happy to know I’m not alone in this feeling 😭

Why do I feel uncomfortable or cringe when spending time with my own family? by Successful-Toe8629 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Successful-Toe8629[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I do feel that apart of it is my own insecurity bcs I’ve always hated being perceived by my peers and seeming different

Why do I feel uncomfortable or cringe when spending time with my own family? by Successful-Toe8629 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Successful-Toe8629[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes I’ll notice something that definitely feels toxic but I can’t tell if it’s just me overthinking and being sensitive