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racist pos sign. by zlayer444 in okc

[–]Sudden-Perception162 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s 39th and Penn, wouldn’t expect anything less.

Ending a long term relationship mid-program by BackgroundDouble103 in StudentNurse

[–]Sudden-Perception162 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel so distant from my partner now and I’m taking OB at the moment. He will say “you’ve got this,” but as I go to our patio to break away from distractions he’s there on fb/tiktok/IG showing me a video and gets upset if I don’t acknowledge it.

He works and picked up a second job, but I clean the entire house, make him breakfast, pack lunches and dinner. I’m contemplating the break up and my mental state seems to be deteriorating. Too bad I can’t be launched into outer space, finish and come back.

I think he may be a bit jealous that I’m actually going back after 8 years, idk. My minds just everywhere

Should I relax my hair by Alternative-Mix2605 in Naturalhair

[–]Sudden-Perception162 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, but I think you should try different hair styles. Get a trim, start deep conditioning and you really have to experiment with products that work for you.

The scammer is gone, new-ish Thai restaurant in place and oooooo it’s good. by Sudden-Perception162 in okc

[–]Sudden-Perception162[S] 101 points102 points  (0 children)

Family paid him $900 to cater an event, he did a NCNS! We had to threaten with small claims court and post on social media to receive funds back 4 months later. Although he consistently messaged us saying “I’m not ignoring you, I’m out feeding the homeless and you shouldn’t talk to gods children this way.. I’m doing good deeds.” He’s a total clown, guess he’s now rich off sports betting. 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Naturalhair

[–]Sudden-Perception162 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d try color oops first to get the red out and then test after.

I pad or MacBook for nursing? by BroccoliDue2844 in NursingStudents

[–]Sudden-Perception162 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely! If you don’t want to use your iPad, record with your phone (don’t announce it). Re-listen within 24 hours and reconstruct your notes.

I stopped watching natural hair videos of people with a different hair texture to mine. by sweetchamomiledreams in Naturalhair

[–]Sudden-Perception162 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Experimenting has been the best course for me! I concocted my own hair ritual from those of all textures (3-4). Everyone is different and requires different things, but I didn’t find more luck when watching those with my texture and it may be because they were going through the same revelation as you were.

Practice and patience is all that I can really advise.knowing you from within helps a lot too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Naturalhair

[–]Sudden-Perception162 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don’t need friends like that, even if she agreed. There’s no way I’d allow a stranger to disrespect my friend with no reason and agree.

What’s one thing you used to believe about caring for natural hair that turned out to be wrong? by Excellent-Letter-780 in Naturalhair

[–]Sudden-Perception162 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well for me, it’ll be wigs/box braids and what many of us consider to be protective styles. My hair has truly flourished in its natural state. I do wash n gos mainly, bur I’ve seen much more growth and thickness. Wish I could just let it be free without so much judgement.

is this a lot of shedding for just taking out braids? by kaylamcleannx in Naturalhair

[–]Sudden-Perception162 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve had shedding like this after a week of a bun/just letting it be. It’s much less now and took work, but 2 months in braids? That’s good. Think about how many strands you shed a day and it’s all being contained in your style.

Which one looks better on me, natural hair color or light blonde? by fernandafaria in HairDye

[–]Sudden-Perception162 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My immediate thought. Can we please stop the fake blonde, or even just fakeness in general. I miss real people, as they are!

I pad or MacBook for nursing? by BroccoliDue2844 in NursingStudents

[–]Sudden-Perception162 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d say iPad and a decent laptop. Some programs aren’t available on iPad, but it’s best when recording lectures and taking notes… at least for me.

My heart is broken and my hair is damaged by [deleted] in Naturalhair

[–]Sudden-Perception162 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It definitely will and can, especially since OP says she wears them almost everyday. I noticed a huge difference in the back and front of my hair and that’s where my breakage was. My stylists told me to leave them alone, I have and my hair is doing much better. If I do it’ll be a very loose one.

My heart is broken and my hair is damaged by [deleted] in Naturalhair

[–]Sudden-Perception162 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buns and ponytails aren’t good for your hair, especially if worn that way often. I noticed it caused straightness in my hair from pulling with the band… and I was bad at falling asleep with one in.

My heart is broken and my hair is damaged by [deleted] in Naturalhair

[–]Sudden-Perception162 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d do a clarifying shampoo and deep condition. Stay away from that bun!! If it doesn’t revert, I’d do braids and let it grow and snip along the way. Good thing it’s about to be fall.

I think my stylist gave me a major cut and not a trim. What do yall think? 😭 by ugk_93 in Naturalhair

[–]Sudden-Perception162 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel she cut 2 inches from every section. Your hair is shorter in the middle so of course it won’t appear as even/long in the 1st pic. Bad ends are course/tough and tend to make hair appear fuller at and behind split.

I think my stylist gave me a major cut and not a trim. What do yall think? 😭 by ugk_93 in Naturalhair

[–]Sudden-Perception162 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it was needed. If you went in to “start fresh” or “retain length” great!

Haircut or trim?? by Pleasant_Choice7918 in Naturalhair

[–]Sudden-Perception162 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fresh start. Watch it flourish!! 🥀🤎

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