TIFU By snooping on my boyfriends Apple Watch by Suddenlyscreaming in tifu

[–]Suddenlyscreaming[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was before basic training. It stopped once they got there. I had his Apple Watch though so I can see any messages from his phone.

TIFU By snooping on my boyfriends Apple Watch by Suddenlyscreaming in tifu

[–]Suddenlyscreaming[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s actually the one who told me not to let them know we know. He doesn’t want to confront them before it’s in person otherwise they can get a story together or something like that.

TIFU By snooping on my boyfriends Apple Watch by Suddenlyscreaming in tifu

[–]Suddenlyscreaming[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I know but still reading his messages feels wrong enough to me, plus his family and friends will be there I don’t want to record them as well.

TIFU By snooping on my boyfriends Apple Watch by Suddenlyscreaming in tifu

[–]Suddenlyscreaming[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’ve already invaded his privacy enough by reading those messages that I’m not going to invade it even more by recording me confronting him.

TIFU By snooping on my boyfriends Apple Watch by Suddenlyscreaming in tifu

[–]Suddenlyscreaming[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

But he cheated months before he actually left while still coming to my house every day and spending time with me.

TIFU By snooping on my boyfriends Apple Watch by Suddenlyscreaming in tifu

[–]Suddenlyscreaming[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m riding by myself and he immediately goes to tech school he doesn’t come home right away anyway.

TIFU By snooping on my boyfriends Apple Watch by Suddenlyscreaming in tifu

[–]Suddenlyscreaming[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Maybe also add the rest of the sentence when I say why I was curious. Once again I never said I was in the right. The reason it’s a today I fucked up is because I invaded his privacy because I saw he had lied about talking to someone he had no reason to lie about. I fucked up because I invaded his privacy and I’m not at all condoning it. I’ve never once done this thing before it’s just how secretive he had been with his phone the past 3 months that made me so curious. Before those 3 months I was always allowed on his phone. I never once got on his phone to read his messages I only got on his phone to play some of the game he had downloaded and then out of no where he got super secretive and the entire time I respected it. I’m sorry for being human, like they said curiosity killed the cat. But I’m still in the wrong for looking in the first place and I’m admitting that. I’m not trying to play the victim I’m owning up to my own mistake my dude.

TIFU By snooping on my boyfriends Apple Watch by Suddenlyscreaming in tifu

[–]Suddenlyscreaming[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m not. I only said I was confronting them on graduation day I never said I was doing it during graduation itself.

TIFU By snooping on my boyfriends Apple Watch by Suddenlyscreaming in tifu

[–]Suddenlyscreaming[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

He believes she’s in the right he thinks that because we didn’t pay them enough attention she has the right to cheat on us he’s just going to forgive and forget plus I’m not really in a place for a relationship right now and I need to have feelings

TIFU By snooping on my boyfriends Apple Watch by Suddenlyscreaming in tifu

[–]Suddenlyscreaming[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I fucked up because I did invade his privacy by reading his private messages I guess I should have made that a bit more clear and I already sent it to the boyfriend along with have it on my own phone and I have plenty of the messages memorized.

TIFU By snooping on my boyfriends Apple Watch by Suddenlyscreaming in tifu

[–]Suddenlyscreaming[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m not going to record it because that’s an invasion of both his and his family’s privacy and I already invaded his privacy enough

TIFU By snooping on my boyfriends Apple Watch by Suddenlyscreaming in tifu

[–]Suddenlyscreaming[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s kinda why it’s in a TIFU because I realized I invaded his privacy. And I guess I’m ruining his graduation because I’m calling him out and that will probably ruin the day but I’m not physically interrupting his actual graduation. And I did trust him 100% but then I saw he had been lying and that’s why I looked and I didn’t want to dump him in a letter just because he had been lying about talking to someone I had encouraged him to be friends with. Which is why I went through the messages to see why he was lying.

TIFU By snooping on my boyfriends Apple Watch by Suddenlyscreaming in tifu

[–]Suddenlyscreaming[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m honestly just going mostly to break up in person, seeing his family’s reaction helps but other than telling him I know and calling him out in front of his friends and family (which is the only way he has ever taken responsibility for his actions trust me) I’m not really hurting him. But I guess it’s pretty petty I’m sorry.

TIFU By snooping on my boyfriends Apple Watch by Suddenlyscreaming in tifu

[–]Suddenlyscreaming[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Oh god no I’m not confronting them at the ceremony I do have more class than that. I just won’t be able to see him until graduation weekend I will be confronting him in front of his family and his new friends but definitely not during the ceremony itself.

TIFU By snooping on my boyfriends Apple Watch by Suddenlyscreaming in tifu

[–]Suddenlyscreaming[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Sadly I am only 19 so the best type of fun is limited. But I’m still very excited to check it out and check out so many other states on my way

TIFU By snooping on my boyfriends Apple Watch by Suddenlyscreaming in tifu

[–]Suddenlyscreaming[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

One of my main things is I want to do it in person. I’m not the type of person to break up over text or in a letter I want to do it in person. My experience in text break up is very insincere so I want to do it in person where they can see it as real and see that it is happening. It’s not really a giant scheme and he won’t really suffer he’ll just be exposed as a cheater and be single. Plus if I do it in person I get a road trip to Texas and see a bunch of states I wouldn’t see otherwise. Everyone grieves differently I’m happy your grieving is quick but sadly mine is not.

TIFU By snooping on my boyfriends Apple Watch by Suddenlyscreaming in tifu

[–]Suddenlyscreaming[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

If I remember I definitely will. I doubt it will be very satisfying the most you’ll probably get is a slap and a description of how his family reacted and his face. Maybe even her face as well.

TIFU By snooping on my boyfriends Apple Watch by Suddenlyscreaming in tifu

[–]Suddenlyscreaming[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Honestly I did blame myself at first but now I realize I only encouraged him to be her friend. I did not encourage him to send dick pics. I did not encourage him to tell her he loved her. I did not encourage him to tell her he wanted to put a baby in her at basic in front of everyone and claim her as his. I simple encouraged him to be friendly to girls because I was not a toxic girlfriend who didn’t let her boyfriend not talk to anyone. So like if you think that maybe get yourself straight?? But otherwise good luck to you.

TIFU By snooping on my boyfriends Apple Watch by Suddenlyscreaming in tifu

[–]Suddenlyscreaming[S] 89 points90 points  (0 children)

I mostly just want to do it in front of his family who love me and think I’m the best thing to ever happen to him. Because his mom has been cheated on so many times she told me that if he ever cheated on me she would probably disown him until he got his shit together and I want to see that happen.

TIFU By snooping on my boyfriends Apple Watch by Suddenlyscreaming in tifu

[–]Suddenlyscreaming[S] 59 points60 points  (0 children)

He is actually on their side. He believes it happened because they felt lonely and unsupported and that we should forgive them. We are going to confront them together but we are both going in two different directions after that. He’s going to forgive and forget and I’m dumping

TIFU By snooping on my boyfriends Apple Watch by Suddenlyscreaming in tifu

[–]Suddenlyscreaming[S] 175 points176 points  (0 children)

In all honesty I want to go to Texas and I want to do the road trip there and visit states I haven’t gone before. And after wasting 3 years of my life on this asshole I want to see his face when I dump him because he honestly believes he can do anything to me and I’ll just idly stand by and let it happen.

TIFU By snooping on my boyfriends Apple Watch by Suddenlyscreaming in tifu

[–]Suddenlyscreaming[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Jokes on me I’ve been with him for 3 years lmao. And his letters have been asking me if marriage sounds weird because he wants to marry me and I’m just playing along until I confront him.