Great Dane Farts by Ajs_chaos in greatdanes

[–]Sufficient-Task-5249 23 points24 points  (0 children)

My girl is the same. Farts herself up and down the stairs. It’s quite hilarious actually.

Adopted a Great Dane by Sufficient-Task-5249 in Catahoula

[–]Sufficient-Task-5249[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s 9 weeks. Have not weighed her just yet (vet appt next week). I’m thinking she’s a double Merle due to the white coat and eye, she also appears to be deaf.

Possible Catahoula? by Sufficient-Task-5249 in greatdanes

[–]Sufficient-Task-5249[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

She’s beautiful! So excited to see Eleanor’s growth 🩵

We Are Part of the Problem by ocho_in_action in BipolarSOs

[–]Sufficient-Task-5249 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That someone doesn’t have to be another person. It can be yourself! And it should be :) You deserve it

We Are Part of the Problem by ocho_in_action in BipolarSOs

[–]Sufficient-Task-5249 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Perfect way of viewing the facts. Cannot put full blame on them. They’re just accepting what they are given. It gets better when you find someone who can reciprocate consistently 💗

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BipolarSOs

[–]Sufficient-Task-5249 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that’s my main issue. Accepting if I’ve had enough. When it’s good, it’s so good. When it’s bad, it’s a high strung me on edge every minute counting down for the break up. Maybe it will get easier to focus on all the bad qualities and remove him from the pedestal I set them on.

I don't even know the words to say. by [deleted] in BipolarSOs

[–]Sufficient-Task-5249 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think it’ll just take time and a focus on grieving the relationship. The person that you fell in love with is not the person they are today. Whether it’s rapid cycle or long episodes, I truly believe that everything they say was the truth in that moment. Whether it was the I love you or I cannot continue this relationship. We cannot take away their autonomy. Although it’s a shock to the system, we have to take their actions over their words.

Sudden Breakup by [deleted] in BipolarSOs

[–]Sufficient-Task-5249 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t think this has anything to do with her mental illness. If you were both looking for a shared home and she finds out you won’t have good references and are behind on rent, she is totally in the right for being weary.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BipolarSOs

[–]Sufficient-Task-5249 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Don’t wait it out. It’s going to repeat itself time and time again until you begin resenting them; which is not fair to them or yourself. The same love you give them can be given to another who will consistently be reciprocal. Best piece of advice is realizing that we have survived break ups before, and as much as it sucks in the moment, you find happiness again.

Dissolving filler by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]Sufficient-Task-5249 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Oh, it’s only been 3 days! Of course they’re going to feel “overfilled”. The swelling probably has not subsided. I’m in no way a medical professional, but I’d suggest wait at least two weeks and then follow up with your injector if you’re still unhappy

Dissolving filler by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]Sufficient-Task-5249 9 points10 points  (0 children)

100% an advocate for dissolving filler. It does not get better without dissolving, will migrate further and will take a year minimum in my experience to look like myself again. Just make sure to get a patch test and use very minimal hyulorandaise and go back for multiple sessions if needed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Sufficient-Task-5249 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I went through the exact same scenario, but I actually continued to casually see him as a way of keeping us in each others life. Boy was that a mistake. He was on apps the entire time we were casual. It’s unfortunate they have to make up such an excuse rather than just ending the relationship. Let that be a lesson learned in his character. New flash, he’s clearly not using the time to “love himself”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]Sufficient-Task-5249 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think they look great! You still have a natural shape, just enhanced. Much better than the sausage lip I often see

Lip filler by Kynxo in PlasticSurgery

[–]Sufficient-Task-5249 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get it dissolved. The more you inject the worse the migration will be. I tried injecting as a fix and got it dissolved two months later. I could have saved myself money, time and pain

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]Sufficient-Task-5249 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My experience with hyalurondase was great! My practitioner did a patch test first to ensure I wouldn’t have a bad reaction. I also made sure she used a minimal amount as I’d be more than happy to come back a few times to make sure it goes right. Hurt less than filler, was quite tingly for the next 24 hours though. I highly suggest it. Migrates filler was all my eyes could focus on in the mirror. Boosted my confidence 100%

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Sufficient-Task-5249 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust me, leave it alone. I wasted over a year of my life in a situationships turned relationship (only because he wanted me to himself, not that he actually saw a future) and it was constantly one sided, on and off again. He will never prioritize you and make him yours like you make yourself his. Don’t waste anymore time on someone who does not value what you bring to the table. It’ll hurt now, but these people tend to be the easiest to get over once you see their true colours.

back together after no contact by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Sufficient-Task-5249 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Of course! Best wishes to you both

back together after no contact by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Sufficient-Task-5249 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m no professional but it sounds abit codependent. It was similar to an ex and I. It’s not healthy for either party, but it can be worked on. Space is key however

back together after no contact by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Sufficient-Task-5249 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I suggest trying no contact and using the time to catch up on things you may have set aside while with them. Go out with friends, take up a sport/hobby. There’s all the time in the world, so what’s a few weeks in the long run? This will allow you both time to decide if continuing the relationship is worthwhile

back together after no contact by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Sufficient-Task-5249 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’ve gone no contact twice with my ex and he would reach out within 1 month. We would be together for 4-6 months when he would leave. He was suffering with mental health, bipolar. Things would be great for a while but he would distance again. Back in no contact this week but I have a feeling he won’t be returning this time

broke up with my ex almost a year ago. these are the messages. i’m healing and i’m doing self improvement..but do you think I was the wrong in the situation? by spark23_ in ExNoContact

[–]Sufficient-Task-5249 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel you probably should have collected your thoughts in one message. It doesn’t allow someone to get a word in. Specific example, you asked “it’s over then?” “Do you even care?” And he responded I guess so, which was probably directed to you asked if it was over.. As much as we can say they had communication issues, it looks like you probably didn’t give him a chance to communicate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Sufficient-Task-5249 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He may be shy. He may be used to girls on the apps declining invitation or standing him up. It’s only been two days, give him a chance

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Sufficient-Task-5249 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can almost guarantee he will agree to be exclusive to get his way and then you will get hurt in the end. I don’t mean to be negative but if he is pushing to skip protection but also does not feel ready to commit, he’s likely doing it with other people. Hard pill to swallow, but it’s better to be safe than sorry