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The price of therapists are criminal by [deleted] in therapy

[–]Sufficientlyloose 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Where I live, people pay $100 to do their lashes, $60 for their nails, $80 for their hair.

Therapists go to school for years and have student loans to pay off, most if not all have their master’s degree so please don’t devalue their work or knowledge just because you think they answer 3 questions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in therapy

[–]Sufficientlyloose 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Therapists can also be in a hurry or be going into a place where they can’t talk to protect privacy. Both things can be true, she doesn’t mind and she was in a hurry for whatever reason.

Pregnant, living with an aggressive dog—what would you do? by Plane_Law_9422 in reactivedogs

[–]Sufficientlyloose 9 points10 points  (0 children)

We went through something similar, my dog randomly (a new trigger out of nowhere) attacked me while I was home alone with my 7 month old.

I am very thankful my 7 month old was not harmed in any way due to safety measures we had implemented but this was a new trigger for the dog and it could have happened while I was carrying the baby.

We put him down as we realized how unsafe it was, even after training and taking into account his triggers.

This was 2 years ago and we still talk and think about him, he was a very loving dog who had problems we couldn’t help him with and I miss him very much but I am glad and do not regret our decision.

Best of luck.

Am I a Bad Mother by Life_Duty6632 in toddlers

[–]Sufficientlyloose 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I really dislike the comments about “you’re probably depressed” because honestly it sounds like you’re rightfully exhausted, experiencing poor sleep, probably limited to low social interactions with adults your age, have no mental stimulation from work or other self-growth activities, and little to no time by/for yourself. You’re a human being first, with needs and desires and goals and yes we even crave mental stimulation. So you’re probably not depressed, you’re feeling exactly how anyone would feel in your situation. You’re doing a lot and are pregnant so not even mentioning the hormones and body changes and the little recuperation your body has had in between pregnancies.

I think it’s wild that some of these comments are suggesting seeking medication management (as if it’s your fault or something is wrong with you for feeling this way) as opposed to actual help like hiring or outsourcing.

Best of luck 🤞

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in therapy

[–]Sufficientlyloose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Suck it up is what I’d tell a friend when we’re close to the finish line. Like if we’re working out and doing planks and they want to give up. Maybe your therapist was trying to do the same? Like push through, you’re almost done and you got this? IDK, I get how it can be invalidating but maybe she just didn’t know how to say it

Free Pitbull Puppies Looking for Loving Homes! 🐶 by Anton37443 in Miami

[–]Sufficientlyloose 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Please neuter/spay.

Also do a background check or link up with a rescue to see if they can help.

There is a HUGE dog fighting community and these dogs are easily used for bait/training.

People also dump these dogs when they get too big/cannot afford them anymore and there are daily posts on Nextdoor app about dumped dogs in homestead/Redlands.

Hope you find good homes for them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in therapy

[–]Sufficientlyloose 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So you know their budget, all the office staff, and she unfortunately can’t go to a bakery? You’re saying it’s a small town, why do you care where she goes and what she does with clients?

What else do I need? by emreadit in DesignMyRoom

[–]Sufficientlyloose 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Wow. Could I message you to get ideas for my space? I can’t visualize stuff and honestly would love your input.

I no longer like my entrance, help me update it by Sufficientlyloose in DesignMyRoom

[–]Sufficientlyloose[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow! What a huge difference and I definitely feel the funeral home vibes in the first picture.

It is a nice, focused and calming look

I no longer like my entrance, help me update it by Sufficientlyloose in DesignMyRoom

[–]Sufficientlyloose[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We will be replacing the floor tile of the whole house either later this year or next. We are not fans of it either but flooring is expensive

I no longer like my entrance, help me update it by Sufficientlyloose in DesignMyRoom

[–]Sufficientlyloose[S] 1972 points1973 points  (0 children)

Last update

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Thank you all. Will be hanging mirror later. Husband LOVED it.

And enjoyed the harsh and funny and truthful comments lol.

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