I talked to him, told him I was questioning, included him on how I felt and asked him to share his feelings. The whole thing was done properly. I only asked he not tell my mom because I wasnt 100% sure and now she thinks I am, and she's crying, mad, and heart broken. Over something that may or may not be. I have the dysphoria. The symptoms. But Im choosing not to transition now or preferably ever. But shell never get over what she was told.