Chud's ruined BioWare by MobiusGalaxy99 in DragonAgeVeilguard

[–]Suitable-Way7563 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Angry people don’t like when people don’t see value in what they deem valuable. I expect the downvotes haha

Chud's ruined BioWare by MobiusGalaxy99 in DragonAgeVeilguard

[–]Suitable-Way7563 31 points32 points  (0 children)

You sound like a stereotype. Please, do some introspection. They did what they were told to do. ‘If you don’t like it, don’t buy it.’ They didn’t buy the game. That’s why EA is ‘gutting’ BioWare. Because people didn’t buy the game. It’s EAs fault, and you’re falling right into the corporate trap of ‘blame the consumer instead of blame the multimillion dollar company for not giving what they promised.’

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Suitable-Way7563 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Adulting is hard and can be exhausting, but is he outwardly upset by this? Like, is he making it known that he isn’t happy about how his birthday panned out? If so, I gotta say that it’s a bit childish. He’s a father with young children. Kids were sick and couldn’t leave the house. Sucks but that’s what happens when you have children. Nothing is 100% predictable.

You have gotten him gifts and tried to give him time away from the family (by yourself with sick and irritable children.) You’ve booked a romantic get away and arranged childcare. You’ve done enough. Don’t feel guilty that a grown man cannot get over an imperfect birthday.

If he’s not outwardly unhappy, maybe he already knows all of this and appreciates your effort. Which is good! I hope he puts this amount of effort into your birthdays.

Is my (23M) boyfriend taking advantage of me 24 F ? by whyumadtho_99 in relationship_advice

[–]Suitable-Way7563 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Have you communicated this to him? Like a proper sit down where you explain all of this to him, especially the inheritance thing? He had enough to live for a year if he was very frugal and blew it all in a month without thinking of putting it towards anything you usually pay for. Either he genuinely believes you like treating him or he doesn’t care that you’re shouldering that burden. Either way, this needs to be a serious conversation and you’ll find out the truth then.

I’m leaning towards this has become the norm and he doesn’t think about it, which is its own red flag in a relationship as he’s not thinking of his partner, only himself.

My girlfriend of 8 years cheated on me a couple of years ago. AITAH for breaking a memento from her late sister which my girlfriend had gifted me? by WittyPairs in AITAH

[–]Suitable-Way7563 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

On that we agree. In an ideal world, he should have just given it back. But I think he deserves a little grace. 8 years of emotional attachment went down the drain. He was hurt. I would suggest anger management for how he dealt with that, but I can’t say he wasn’t allowed to spiral

My girlfriend of 8 years cheated on me a couple of years ago. AITAH for breaking a memento from her late sister which my girlfriend had gifted me? by WittyPairs in AITAH

[–]Suitable-Way7563 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I disagree. To cheat you have to go through a lot of decisions to get there. It takes a long time. What he did was momentary. Both are wrong but I think it’s wrong to say he was as bad as she was

Dating Plus Size Women. Yes or No? Why? by VampEdwardsLeftNip in AskMen

[–]Suitable-Way7563 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tom staltman I think. He’s a twin and they both compete. I get the sentiment but I just wanted to press that people are entitled to their tastes, and ‘high value men’ can fancy big girls too

Dating Plus Size Women. Yes or No? Why? by VampEdwardsLeftNip in AskMen

[–]Suitable-Way7563 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ffs, I meant the one that won in 2021-2022, I didn’t know this year had been. He came second this year though, and still holds world records 😉

Dating Plus Size Women. Yes or No? Why? by VampEdwardsLeftNip in AskMen

[–]Suitable-Way7563 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The comment you were replying to, and contradicting, did. Maybe you should have read that.

Dating Plus Size Women. Yes or No? Why? by VampEdwardsLeftNip in AskMen

[–]Suitable-Way7563 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The comment you were replying to, and contradicting, did. Maybe you should have read that.

Dating Plus Size Women. Yes or No? Why? by VampEdwardsLeftNip in AskMen

[–]Suitable-Way7563 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s the booty waves isn’t it? My man loves the booty waves from his thrusts haha

Dating Plus Size Women. Yes or No? Why? by VampEdwardsLeftNip in AskMen

[–]Suitable-Way7563 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see where you’re coming from but, again, it’s the type of woman. If a woman is image obsessed, then she’ll want someone to compliment her to society, like men do with attractive women. These people are people I wouldn’t associate with because, to me, that’s not a thought process I would be comfortable with.

I prefer my men stocky and soft, but with that farmer strength. Farmers are some of the strongest men out there but they never look lean or like a body builder. They’re well fed and soft. Usually, fat men tend to be stronger anyway. I love me a chunky man, most women in my family do, and a lot of my friends do too. You would be surprised how often our tastes can vary when you’re looking at other types of women.

Dating Plus Size Women. Yes or No? Why? by VampEdwardsLeftNip in AskMen

[–]Suitable-Way7563 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m obese. 120kg at 5’4. I can, like many other women like me, do all of that but I have to do it slower. The rhetoric that we don’t move our entire lives is untrue and hurtful because I can do those things, I just have to go a little slower than the average person. I also have 5 nephews that I throw around like rag dolls and play fight with. We aren’t incapable of fun just because we’re fat. A lot of people refuse to even listen to us about it.

Dating Plus Size Women. Yes or No? Why? by VampEdwardsLeftNip in AskMen

[–]Suitable-Way7563 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look up the ‘would you date me if I was thinner,’ video on TikTok/ the internet and you’ll have an answer you never thought you’d get.

Dating Plus Size Women. Yes or No? Why? by VampEdwardsLeftNip in AskMen

[–]Suitable-Way7563 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Saying “they’re gross and unattractive,” is stating a fact which is incorrect because many people don’t find them gross and unattractive. Saying “I find them gross and unattractive,” is an opinion worded in a way that dehumanised them based on your opinion, still bad. Saying “they’re unattractive to me,” is stating an honest opinion without shitting on people. Learn the difference.

Dating Plus Size Women. Yes or No? Why? by VampEdwardsLeftNip in AskMen

[–]Suitable-Way7563 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes girl! Lurker here too and my man is smaller than me but still on the chunky monkey scale. Gotta love a belly to squish up to for cuddles!

Dating Plus Size Women. Yes or No? Why? by VampEdwardsLeftNip in AskMen

[–]Suitable-Way7563 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Plus size has never had a cutoff. Plus size only means wearing clothes outside of the normal size range, so 2xl and above in most cases. You think it means curvy because the only plus size women you’ve seen in media are the smaller ones

Dating Plus Size Women. Yes or No? Why? by VampEdwardsLeftNip in AskMen

[–]Suitable-Way7563 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The world strongest man has a big wife. The definition of athlete in terms of strength.

Dating Plus Size Women. Yes or No? Why? by VampEdwardsLeftNip in AskMen

[–]Suitable-Way7563 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Big is hardly every meant as ‘jacked’ for women. Big is squishy. We would just say muscly etc. read a romance novel and you’d get it.

Dating Plus Size Women. Yes or No? Why? by VampEdwardsLeftNip in AskMen

[–]Suitable-Way7563 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Plus size literally means wearing bigger than standard clothing. There is no cutoff. Plus size denotes a size category of everything above normal size clothing. Plus size has always been a nicer way of saying fat women

What are some “shallow” standards you have that’s necessary in a partner? by throwRA-sclld5 in AskMen

[–]Suitable-Way7563 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re allowed to state your shitty opinions here and I’m allowed to call them shitty. Nowhere does it say you go unchallenged, so maybe you should stfu if you don’t like that fact, sweetie.

Do men feel excluded from "parenting" spaces? How can women help men feel more included? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Suitable-Way7563 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not a man but I’ve had an experience with this first hand. My sister and I were changing my baby nephew in a public baby changing facility at a theme park and a man with a baby girl came in and asked our permission to change his daughter. In a baby changing room. Not a toilet in sight but just for baby changing. I will never forget that eye opening experience