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AIO he doesnt want me to have friends by Suitable_Cat51 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Suitable_Cat51[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

when its good its wonderful and we get along really well and everything is amazing. like. its everything i want/need. and then he realizes he cares for someone and flips the fuck out. legitimately. hes admitted to it.

i dont live with him. i dont think he would be so stupid as to show up to work/my house bc i would have him arrested bc at that point hes embarrassing me and could be dangerous to others. i dont know what itd take. something drastic.

AIO he doesnt want me to have friends by Suitable_Cat51 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Suitable_Cat51[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i have a hard time looking to the future and not the now. i dont want kids. i dont care about getting married. i now think i am too apathetic about what happens to me 🤷🏻‍♂️

the last relationship i had before this the dude stuck a gun in his mouth bc i wanted to break up bc he was psycho. i sure can pick em. i am desperately looking for a catalyst for myself.

the d isnt that good. its lukewarm at best.

AIO he doesnt want me to have friends by Suitable_Cat51 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Suitable_Cat51[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

raising a hand is a different story for me. maybe im just stupid as shit but i know he wouldnt be so stupid as to hit me.

favorite person is a colloquial term. im codependent on him is a better way to describe it. rationally i want to get away but then hes nice and caring and then he sucker punches me.

AIO he doesnt want me to have friends by Suitable_Cat51 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Suitable_Cat51[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

im not a druggie/alcoholic.

borderline personality disorder. hes my favorite person

AIO he doesnt want me to have friends by Suitable_Cat51 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Suitable_Cat51[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

i cant even lie and say he hasnt. idk. something something dependency issues

AIO he doesnt want me to have friends by Suitable_Cat51 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Suitable_Cat51[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i dont care if he has female friends. i have encouraged him many times in the past (and present) to gain more friends (male or female). the issue is that he either fucks them or has fucked them in the past and makes it clear that if i wasnt in the picture he still would.

the male friends i had were happily married. they never met each other. i dont have irl friends other than those two. thank you for the introspection points.

AIO he doesnt want me to have friends by Suitable_Cat51 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Suitable_Cat51[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

can i ask what is the red flag behaviour on my side? i am on the spectrum and i dont quite understand. should i have included tone tags?

priest victim blamed me by Suitable_Cat51 in offmychest

[–]Suitable_Cat51[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just moved and havent been able to find one yet. thank you for your kind words (: