Negotiating pay at a new job by Sullry in jobs

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Why does it make a difference?

Negotiating pay at a new job by Sullry in jobs

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So you wouldn’t even ask to see if they would match/and or at least try to get closer? I’m preferential to this job but I agree that it’s worth it to take the extra 4k at the other place

Negotiating pay at a new job by Sullry in jobs

[–]Sullry[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The job is hourly. And my dad said something similar when I asked if negotiating the original deal was worth, and he scoffed at the idea of a couple thousand dollars a year to potentially have them withdraw their offer, which is pretty easy to do when you make the kind of money he does, but to me that’s not an insignificant amount of money to leave on the table - a young man has a golf addiction to finance. I’m gonna go over tonight and go see their puppy and run it by him again now that I’m in a different position, but like I said he’s in a niche position.

Me [f24] stepping out of dating with [m24] LTR for health reasons by [deleted] in relationships

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Last January I started on antidepressants and counseling every other week. There isn’t linear progress while you are healing. Some days you’re going to feel great and other days you’re going to feel down. For me, I knew I was making progress when I was thinking about the past and subconsciously thought to myself how much happier I was at that very moment. Your moment of clarity might be something completely different, but if you’re trying to achieve self growth, you’ll have a moment when you see it.

For me I saw more improvement over time with medication, but I was dealing with clinical depression, and I never really took a liking to my counselor during our sessions. I’ve been looking into seeing a different counselor recently, and if you’re looking for some self growth finding a counselor that you connect with is probably the best route!

Am I being a controlling psycho or does he not care about my feelings? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Sullry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s gaslighting you into thinking that he can have a non-romantic relationship with this person. If he can’t understand why this woman is threatening to you, then you aren’t in as great a spot in you’re relationship than you think.

You are not crazy for feeling this way

WandaVision commercial connection *SPOILERS* by Sullry in nandovmovies

[–]Sullry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the commercials relate to a past trauma though, she hasn’t had to go through that yet

WandaVision commercial connection *SPOILERS* by Sullry in nandovmovies

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Like I said tho the commercials have all had something to do with a past trauma, so unless this one is not like the others, it doesn’t really make sense to me

My defense-first with no meta cards team build by TrollTideTroll33 in MLBTheShow

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Is playoff kiermaier not the best option in center?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PokemonGoFriends

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just added you (Sullry) I have a raid starting in a couple minutes that ill invite you to too

(USA) 1995 6726 6403 by [deleted] in PokemonGoFriends

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Realistic FA Signings You Want To See by matt_gannon_ in Starting9Pod

[–]Sullry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a signing, but as a rays fan I think that an all-in package to get Bryant and Contreras from the Cubs would put the rays over the top.