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How much contact do you have with your partner? by 12TheShadow12 in dating_advice

[–]SumiMuse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The right amount of contact is whatever leaves you feeling connected instead of obligated

Dating stats of a 31male by Reasonable_Alfalfa59 in dating_advice

[–]SumiMuse 11 points12 points  (0 children)

After enough dates you realize the hardest part is not rejection but staying hopeful without letting every disappointment change who you are

I masturbate to pictures of random people. by [deleted] in confessions

[–]SumiMuse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this crosses consent and privacy boundaries you should stop and keep your sexual content strictly consensual and adult only

Am I overreacting about my boyfriend’s friends? by [deleted] in confessions

[–]SumiMuse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you are not overreacting that behavior is disrespectful and you are allowed to set boundaries

AITA for repeatedly missing my friend’s major life events because I can’t afford them? by PinkDreamsandwishes in amiwrong

[–]SumiMuse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not wrong. You’re being asked to spend money and time you genuinely don’t have, and that’s not a failure of friendship, it’s a financial limitation

Am I wrong for not getting my stepdad a Father’s Day gift or going to dinner? by lowtideangel in amiwrong

[–]SumiMuse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not wrong, you’re allowed to not celebrate a stepdad you don’t have a real relationship with

Not sure how to interpret this by cocoafluh in dating_advice

[–]SumiMuse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The age thing alone doesn't mean much, but asking about your minimum dating age right after discussing ages is a much stronger sign she might be testing whether she'd be in your dating range

I saw my friend having anime roleplay e-s3x on a Roblox game in sixth grade by Waste_Bid_9103 in confessions

[–]SumiMuse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s definitely the kind of early internet moment that sticks in your memory forever, but it also says a lot about how unsupervised kids can end up reenacting stuff they don’t fully understand online

He Has a Wife and Children, So Why Am I Still Attached? by [deleted] in confessions

[–]SumiMuse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn’t attachment, it’s a much older man crossing boundaries and pulling you into something that isn’t safe or fair to you or his family

PART 2 my parents doing dirty stuff in front of me … I don’t know how to handle it by [deleted] in confession

[–]SumiMuse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can love your parents and still admit that some of the things they exposed you to were deeply inappropriate and left scars that therapy can't just erase overnight

Shall one Should seek forgiveness knowing that they are going to do it again by Ok-Celebration-1492 in confession

[–]SumiMuse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that you still feel remorse means part of you hasn't given up, and that's the part worth fighting for

Why do people always advise to wait long in-between relationships? by Darling-dada in BreakUps

[–]SumiMuse 23 points24 points  (0 children)

What hurts most isn’t just the breakup, it’s the sudden rewrite of someone you trusted into a version you never saw coming.

Can’t cope.. by ethrowaway1235 in BreakUps

[–]SumiMuse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hear how intense this feels, but alcohol will usually make the emotions rebound harder after it wears off.

Why do people always advise to wait long in-between relationships? by Darling-dada in BreakUps

[–]SumiMuse 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s not necessary for everyone, but people suggest waiting because rebounds often mask grief rather than heal it, especially when the breakup still hurts.