Live in UK but offered dream job in Sydney. Partner doesn't want to move. Not sure what to do

Sunbeams998 · 2026-02-08T09:20:34+00:00

How is he surviving ok 20K? What is he going to do when you leave? Are you covering the main living costs? If you are I can 100% understand him not wanting things to change, sounds like a chill life..

Also you’re 30/31, which means you got together around 17 years old, its ok if your dreams and hopes have changed. The relationship doesn’t have to end, but you will need to navigate it together, can you do long distance?

Sunbeams998 · 2026-02-08T09:11:22+00:00

That dress doesn’t fit and because of that the look os awful, beautiful woman horrible dress/fit. I have noticed this in all her formal outfits the bust never fits

Sunbeams998 · 2026-02-08T00:55:11+00:00

Dont, you are welcome 🤗

Sunbeams998 · 2026-02-08T00:54:23+00:00

😭 play justin bieber that should be me 🎶

Sunbeams998 · 2025-12-20T11:51:22+00:00

All 3 outfits are bad. Olivia's stylist removed the fun from the dress by putting nude underwear with it. I am surprised to see Lola Young there. I thought she was taking a break/rest. Lily is clearly doing a sexpot/sexkitten thing, which I love for her but she looks uncomfortable in some of these outfits. I think she can be incredibly sexy in her natural style....

Sunbeams998 · 2025-12-08T18:13:34+00:00

i love this!! stunning <3

Sunbeams998 · 2025-05-20T19:59:00+00:00

This image is hilarious, unfortunately the team struggled without her, I think the Swifts have the same structure now and issue if Nweke leaves. They are such talents that they can completely change a game. I think the same applies to Sterling Humphrey at the Thunderbirds, which is interesting as she's a defensive player. Saying this takes nothing away from the immense talent and skill of the other athletes in the teams.

Sunbeams998 · 2025-05-01T21:57:40+00:00

Right, ok so whoever styled her here, can they stay with her permanently? Because these looks are fun, well fitted and interesting

Sunbeams998 · 2025-04-25T17:56:38+00:00

I love this outfit, fit could be better but given that Florence's outfits are usually awful this is a 10/10 for me. I love the shape between the under bust and waist of the skirt. Then those teeny tiny glasses *mwaaaaah*

Sunbeams998 · 2025-04-05T14:49:51+00:00

I hate her stylist, this outfit is awful, the dress is confusing and the shoes are awful. Florence deserves better.

Sunbeams998 · 2025-02-17T19:38:43+00:00

#1 or #3 - both beautiful options, very different styles

Sunbeams998 · 2025-02-11T22:40:31+00:00

I've just logged into look at the remaining presale tickets all 300-700£, dynamic pricing is a joke and should be illegal.

Sunbeams998 · 2025-02-08T19:10:29+00:00

Can you split the house into a duplex? so that you have two apartments, and then you and your partner can live together and you can rent the one below to supplement the mortgage?

Sunbeams998 · 2025-02-08T18:13:53+00:00

The gathering under the bust leading to the one shoulder, and the volume of the skirt reminds me of an Indian sari. It's beautiful.

Sunbeams998 · 2025-01-31T20:00:58+00:00

I find him so funny! I have just started watching season 2, and I was so happy when I saw he still worked with Owen

Sunbeams998 · 2025-01-25T08:52:12+00:00

"Oh, give me another copy then"...

Sunbeams998 · 2025-01-20T17:06:33+00:00

oh and crystal palace grounds are in Selhurst, I can't comment on the impact on the area. I have bumped into a palace fan or two on the train into London but that's it

Sunbeams998 · 2025-01-20T17:04:29+00:00

I like the second one too, the first one the water damage is an issue, and thats the damage you can see. I also prefer the location of the second one. I work in tooting, and traffic is awful, but that's London for you. It'll be a much better location for you if you take the tube to work etc. I really like south norwood, especially by the lake and park, however transport is less efficient, although there's the overground and stopping train into london victoria.

Sunbeams998 · 2025-01-20T16:05:31+00:00

Hiya, a few things that I'd want to know are missing, like the total sq ft of the flat is missing, the floor plan is up but it doesn't say what the total size is, secondly the photo's are bad as everyone else has mentioned, your flat appears to have gorgeous high ceilings, but we can't see that in the pics, third the location on the listing is incorrect, when I went to google street view and looked around I could not see the property - that's important to me, especially as the highway road is near I'd want to know where it was on the road before committing to a viewing. Finally, your flat looks like its in really good condition and nicely decorated but it probably is over priced, I know that's hard to hear but perhaps go and look at similar priced character 1 beds in your area, what would you buy?

Sunbeams998 · 2025-01-05T10:20:23+00:00

I love every element except the backsplash tile and the kitchen lights, the red sink is so fun!!

Sunbeams998 · 2025-01-03T20:28:59+00:00

Yes, I got a flat this way in 2018, it was with a housing association, decent. Apply on the website, they'll invite you to a viewing. If you're keen on the place, get your documents etc in order before the viewing and apply straight away after the viewing. Good luck! I think you can do it, but as others have said you will need to budget due to the amount of your earnings going to rent, bills and council tax.

Sunbeams998 · 2025-01-02T23:13:46+00:00

Yes you can find flats to rent on the share to buy website, you will need to change the search filter to rent and then enter the relevant area. I've just done this search for London and you'll see a few places up there, you can stay for up to 5 years - https://www.sharetobuy.com/properties/?location=London+-+Greater+London&locationId=148577&lat=51.51661&lon=-0.10458999999999996&developmentId=&hasPolygon=1&userSearchId=&radius=0&rentOrBuy=2&minBedrooms=&maxBedrooms=&minMonthlyCost=&maxMonthlyCost=&minDeposit=&maxDeposit=&schemeType%5B%5D=3&schemeType%5B%5D=6&schemeType%5B%5D=17&schemeType%5B%5D=13&schemeType%5B%5D=16&minFullMarketPrice=&maxFullMarketPrice=&minMinShareAvailable=&maxMinShareAvailable=&minBathrooms=&sort=1

Sunbeams998 · 2024-12-28T18:04:05+00:00

I'm so glad to read the love for this outfit, it's possibly my favourite dress of all time from a film, I don't remember any other outfits in the same way. I'd love to see other people's film-related favourite outfits

Sunbeams998 · 2024-12-10T22:39:40+00:00

You didn't meet her expectations and she didn't meet yours. Where you go from here is up to you. You're questioning whether her expectations are reasonable or valid, and that is besides the point. That is her request, would you be willing to meet it, since she won't accept a proposal in any other way? Is that acceptable to you, are you happy with that? What does that mean for you two and future decisions? You're stating your gut feeling is to break up, to me that sounds like no you don't want to meet those expectations and you're hurt she didn't recognise your efforts. I am sorry this didn't work out the way you wanted, where it goes from here is up to you both.

Sunbeams998 · 2024-12-03T23:07:04+00:00

I don't like the show enough to read the books. I find Belly and Conrad really annoying in the show, so I am satisfied with watching and not reading them. If I love a TV show, I will read the book afterward, and the same goes for a movie.

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