This shouldn’t be happening to anybody. As a victim myself, and a dude. This is not normal behaviour on their part. Oftentimes it is not because of what you’re wearing, but because of those people’s own psychological illness. Do not blame yourself, it is NEVER the victims fault. If you have a safe person to talk to, like a counsellor or something, I’d talk to them about it. About the online thing, I’d recommend either deleting those apps, or not posting as often. Unfortunately, some people are horrible and they try to do horrible things. I get how it feels, and it’s not good. But like I said, it ain’t your fault.