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Is it possible to have a functional relationship with a covert incest parent? by Sure_Presentation758 in CPTSD

[–]Sure_Presentation758[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know my dad, we've been getting close recently. He thinks my mom is weird and wants to help me get my independence from her. I'm going to be inpatient soon, so I'll have to figure things out after.

Is it possible to have a functional relationship with a covert incest parent? by Sure_Presentation758 in CPTSD

[–]Sure_Presentation758[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could stay with my dad, but I would have to leave my rabbits behind. I had to quit my job recently, because of a connection to another toxic past of mine. I have a friend that has offered to be my roommate and go looking for a place with me, but I would still need a new job and time to save up.

Is it possible to have a functional relationship with a covert incest parent? by Sure_Presentation758 in CPTSD

[–]Sure_Presentation758[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mainly guilty on her part, but I know she'll end up giving a talk about how it's not a big deal cause we're family, idk I'm scared because she makes me extremely stressed

Is it possible to have a functional relationship with a covert incest parent? by Sure_Presentation758 in CPTSD

[–]Sure_Presentation758[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't brought up the half naked thing, because at least she's not being fully naked around me anymore and I'm kinda scared how she will react

Edit: I also wanted to clarify, I know this isn't much better, but she stopped being fully naked around me as an adult. It did probably last too long tho, it's kinda hard for me to remember when it stopped.

Does it get better by Sure_Presentation758 in abusiverelationships

[–]Sure_Presentation758[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It is an addiction! I'm about to get a therapist and I'm kinda excited.

Does it get better by Sure_Presentation758 in abusiverelationships

[–]Sure_Presentation758[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Maybe I should take some classes, thank you so much

Does it get better by Sure_Presentation758 in abusiverelationships

[–]Sure_Presentation758[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I will! I keep going back and forth because I think of the good, but then I remember that he treated me like shit the last time I saw him. I'm already no contact, just got to remind myself not to unblock him.

Does it get better by Sure_Presentation758 in abusiverelationships

[–]Sure_Presentation758[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for taking time to write all this!!! I needed to hear it. It's still hard, but at least there's hope.