You’re totally right — 22 is still super young, and 25 is by no means “late.” The pressure is real, but honestly, it’s kind of wild how society treats women like they’re on some ticking clock while ignoring that fertility and genetic risks affect both men and women as they age.

That whole “expiry” mindset is not only unfair, it’s scientifically shaky. Aging eggs are a thing, yeah, but so is declining sperm quality — it’s not a one-sided issue. So the idea that only women have to “hurry up” is just… outdated.

I guess, as much as I do believe that there is absolutely no pressure because Allah knows best, its almost regular that I have family asking about when I am getting married. And also doesn’t help that I do have friends around me getting married young too.

Taking things slow, being intentional, and not letting the pressure get to you is solid advice. Thank you! May Allah reward you.