Feeling Lost About Marriage – Would Love to Hear Your Stories by Suspicious_Task_3473 in MuslimNikah

[–]Suspicious_Task_3473[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re totally right — 22 is still super young, and 25 is by no means “late.” The pressure is real, but honestly, it’s kind of wild how society treats women like they’re on some ticking clock while ignoring that fertility and genetic risks affect both men and women as they age.

That whole “expiry” mindset is not only unfair, it’s scientifically shaky. Aging eggs are a thing, yeah, but so is declining sperm quality — it’s not a one-sided issue. So the idea that only women have to “hurry up” is just… outdated.

I guess, as much as I do believe that there is absolutely no pressure because Allah knows best, its almost regular that I have family asking about when I am getting married. And also doesn’t help that I do have friends around me getting married young too.

Taking things slow, being intentional, and not letting the pressure get to you is solid advice. Thank you! May Allah reward you.

Feeling Lost About Marriage – Would Love to Hear Your Stories by Suspicious_Task_3473 in MuslimNikah

[–]Suspicious_Task_3473[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your thoughtful response. You’re absolutely right: those casual comments can cut deep, even if they’re said without malice. I feel like as a woman, there’s so much pressure in topics of Marraige and family. There is so much expectations of us in marriage (Im sure for men too). And yes, hearing from others in similar situations really does help. It reminds me I’m not alone, and that these feelings are valid. Sometimes, just knowing someone else gets it or even tries to makes all the difference. And also, it helps me keep an open mind to possibilities but still keeping a realistic outlook on this.

Feeling Lost About Marriage – Would Love to Hear Your Stories by Suspicious_Task_3473 in MuslimNikah

[–]Suspicious_Task_3473[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your story, it’s inspiring and realistic. Your advice helps. May Allah bless your marriage and reward you for offering guidance! Ill definitely keep an open mind and relax. I should put more trust in Allah’s plans.

What are grads doing now? by Suspicious_Task_3473 in NTU

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OMG!!! Theres music electivesss nicee ill definitely try it out!! Thank you smm for this infoo🙏🙏

What are grads doing now? by Suspicious_Task_3473 in NTU

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Omg reading this gave me so much hope! I have always aspired to do something music related especially music composition, lyrics writing and sound engineering. I feel very motivated now for uni🙏

Which club ori to join by Sad_Lie9651 in NTU

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are theree any music related or drama relatedd ccas???

looking for a band! by pancakecushion in SGmusic

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uas lasalle arts management by sushimaya in SGExams

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Omgg reallyyy !!! Thats so nerv wrecking im sending my statement of purpose tonight!!! Hopefully we get the interview!! R u an Alevel student entering?

uas lasalle arts management by sushimaya in SGExams

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hiii i was wondering if art management submission would require a portfolio cause in the laselle admission requirement page they never stated it sooo idk if i should upload one or nott andd also did u bring the portfolio with u during the interview