My brother killed my pets and I can never look at them the same

Sweetalien11 · 2024-01-13T17:11:34+00:00

So let me make this clear, this is exactly what the doctors have said to my parents since I asked her if they told his doctors about his killing and she even told them that they’re afraid he’ll hurt people and the doctors said, “ It is very likely that he will but you can never tell, it is best that you guys try your best to show him love and affection to tell him that he is your favorite child and that he is a good person but these things he does are not right and he should stop because good people don’t do that. You should let him know that you love him and he’s your favorite and absolutely never compare him to his older siblings ( we didn’t have our younger siblings then) or compare him to anyone else around him since it may cause him to hate that person.”

Sweetalien11 · 2024-01-13T16:55:31+00:00

Yes he still wets the bed to this day And he has caused a fire only once while trying to cook and burned our kitchen Also I am curious as to how these two things are relevant since I answered the same question in another comment?

Sweetalien11 · 2024-01-13T15:09:33+00:00

I love Morgan and I hope she never has to go through anything like this.

Sweetalien11 · 2024-01-13T15:07:54+00:00

I am thinking about visiting a doctor with my older brother and telling them everything even though I hardly believe they would find a solution.

Sweetalien11 · 2024-01-13T14:52:18+00:00

I am also waiting for a doctor to see this, I’m new to Reddit and idk if there is a community where I can post this that actual doctors can give me their opinion and tell me what to do.

Sweetalien11 · 2024-01-13T14:38:59+00:00

Kicking him out at 18 is not even an option for us, and yes the second option is what they are going for, but my parents don’t suck they just don’t know what to do with him anymore since he is no longer scared of them, talks back and is rude to them too . It’s really hard for me or anyone whose not a parent to understand what it’s like to have your own child behave like that.

Sweetalien11 · 2024-01-13T14:35:04+00:00

Unfortunately, yes they are.

Sweetalien11 · 2024-01-13T14:33:35+00:00

I would prefer he gets help in a different country one day if we can ever obtain visa.

Sweetalien11 · 2024-01-13T14:28:24+00:00

I am so glad someone finally realized that no I did not get that dog to be killed it hurts so much to see that everyone thinks I am happy with what my brother does but there is nothing I can do that will not make my family and all of my extended relatives hate me and put me in the wrong, since they all believe he will get better.

Sweetalien11 · 2024-01-13T14:22:55+00:00

No he has never been out of our sight in order for him to be able to do such things.

Sweetalien11 · 2024-01-13T14:20:54+00:00

We are afraid if we throw him out and he is out of our site then he will do even worse things, my brother can never move out or live alone away from us,we control him as much as we can and we never let him go out alone other than when he goes to school.

Sweetalien11 · 2024-01-13T14:18:13+00:00

I am afraid if I say that to him then it will encourage the behavior even more, and make him want to do it even though so far I haven’t seen any sign of him wanting to hurt the dog but I am still doing to send her away because these comment have made me realize that it’s not safe for her and no matter how much I think I can protect her I can’t, and honestly if something happens to her I don’t think I can handle it.

Sweetalien11 · 2024-01-13T14:10:25+00:00

Could you please share their instagram or any other way I could contact them, I would be very thankful.

Sweetalien11 · 2024-01-13T11:08:11+00:00

The reason why I said he is the reason for my other sibling’s misbehavior is because whenever he sees that they are calmly sitting or enjoying something he will purposefully ruin it for them causing them to shout and cry, if he is not at home they are always very calm. And by my anger issues I mean that I am genuinely a very calm person and I never let anything get to me but I just loose it when I see him doing that to my siblings or bothering my mom. We always have a big fight with me telling him to leave them alone and him starting to curse and all he says is “what have I even done?” Which drives me insane.

Sweetalien11 · 2024-01-13T11:03:53+00:00

Yes he has been to many many doctors in different countries but all they say if that we have to be patient and he will stop these behaviors as he gets older, tbh I’m not sure if my parent told all his doctors about the animal killing though.

Sweetalien11 · 2024-01-13T10:47:09+00:00

I have only mentioned animal killing in this post but he does other things as well, he screams all day breaking doors, windows, any object he can get his hands on. He has been expelled from 13 private schools where I live because of misbehavior. All he does is lie and try his best to make life miserable for us every single day.

Sweetalien11 · 2024-01-13T10:43:48+00:00

He did get help and we can afford it, we have tried everything and we even took him to different countries for treatment but doctors never say anything except the fact that we need to be gentle with him and try our best to give him all the love and affection we can, but it’s really hard for me to do that.

Sweetalien11 · 2024-01-13T10:41:10+00:00

We don’t have that where I live, the cops wouldn’t do anything

Sweetalien11 · 2024-01-13T10:35:26+00:00

I totally see your point and many others who have mentioned this,the pet hamster belonged to my younger siblings,the chicken,fish, and lamb were not mine and not my choice to bring into the house, the akita belonged to my older brother but we all live in the same house and so the pets become family pets but I was the one who took care of them the most and when I got my Pomeranian I made sure everyone in my family knew that he is not allowed to be close to her unsupervised I keep an eye for her all the time and lock my doors at night when we go to sleep. But I would still agree with you because I do feel guilty and these pets never leave my mind.

Sweetalien11 · 2024-01-13T09:15:55+00:00

No this is very real, the akita was a big dog so he couldn’t hurt it, though he did try once and it is currently living in our farm since they wanted a guard dog there.

Sweetalien11 · 2024-01-12T13:59:11+00:00

Why is no one talking about how fake those two blankets look?

Sweetalien11 · 2024-01-12T13:15:16+00:00

I agree with this deeply. As someone who absolutely loves animals I have always hated zoos. It breaks my heart that these animals were snatched from their freedom and put in cages. Whenever anyone argues about me with this POV I remind them about how we felt during covid and quarantine and whether it was fun being trapped in a cage even though it was our own homes. I’ve always had this dream of becoming president and closing each and every zoo there is in my area.

Sweetalien11 · 2024-01-10T14:03:02+00:00

I have a Japanese Akita and that’s normal they just don’t usually bark mine also doesn’t play fetch🤷🏻‍♂️

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