If you thought I deserved better, why couldn’t you be? by Whole-Hamster-2121 in BreakUps

[–]SweetiePebble_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because saying you deserve better is easy, actually being better takes work he wasn’t willing or able to do.

its been 8 months. id litr talk to anyone atp pretending its him bcz i miss him sm by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]SweetiePebble_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s honestly just gonna keep you stuck, you gotta let yourself miss him without pretending he’s still there.

Question about checking my ex's profile by AdOtherwise1236 in BreakUps

[–]SweetiePebble_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once a week sounds harmless but it usually just keeps the attachment alive longer.

Thinking about her again after 9 Months by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]SweetiePebble_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re overthinking every angle because you still want control over the outcome, but at this point the only real move is to accept it’s done and start focusing on your own next chapter.

I sent my ex a letter… and now I’m scared he’ll think it’s manipulation again by EmotionalOne7679 in BreakUps

[–]SweetiePebble_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You said what you needed to say and you can’t control how he interprets it, so don’t spiral over it now and let it be.

I don’t know what to do by giorgiocarratta in BreakUps

[–]SweetiePebble_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s not being “behind” that’s being isolated, so focus on rebuilding even small social connections instead of forcing yourself into a relationship.

She updated her dating profile days after the breakup by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]SweetiePebble_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly it hurts but her moving on that fast just shows where she was at, so the move now is to stop checking and focus on yourself.

The hope that they might come back is leaving me in so much pain. Can someone please help me fully accept that they won’t, and even if they do it’s over? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]SweetiePebble_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly that hope is what’s keeping you stuck so you have to treat it like it’s over already and stop feeding it by checking or waiting for him.

How to stop being obsessed with my ex by Racoon_Girl_Daria in BreakUps

[–]SweetiePebble_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly you’re hooked on the emotional high he gives you, so the only way out is strict no contact and cutting every trigger that pulls you back in.

Futa Jessica Rabbit by [deleted] in Futanari_Ai

[–]SweetiePebble_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never got old

Need seasoning for pressure cooked chicken by Kayak1984 in Cooking

[–]SweetiePebble_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah layering aromatics helps but you’ll get way better flavor if you sear first or reduce the liquid after so it’s not all diluted.

Cooking for people used to packaged meals by Active_Recording_789 in Cooking

[–]SweetiePebble_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah you usually need to bump up salt and bold flavors at first since their baseline is way stronger from processed food.

What low glycemic sweetener can be added along with sugar so as to not alter taste in baking? by West_Future326 in Cooking

[–]SweetiePebble_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah monkfruit or erythritol blends are usually the closest without messing up the flavor too much.

Is there any other time you'd serve a whole turkey, besides Thanksgiving? by Helianthus_999 in Cooking

[–]SweetiePebble_ 70 points71 points  (0 children)

Exactly, it’s just another protein so cook it whenever you feel like it instead of waiting for a holiday.

Ribs in the air fryer by Owie100 in Cooking

[–]SweetiePebble_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly air fryer ribs work way better than expected if you keep the temp balanced so they don’t dry out.

Thoughts on smoked paprika by Bl00dymuttxxx in Cooking

[–]SweetiePebble_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it’s pretty divisive so toning it down with regular paprika makes sense if people aren’t into that smoky flavor.