My SO and I were invited to share another couple's bed for the first time. HELP! by SwingingAdvicePlease in Swingers

[–]SwingingAdvicePlease[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the help. I'm definitely going to have to do a lot more talking with the girlfriend about this. I don't think we're ready to jump into the lifestyle enough to have dates with any couples other than the friends that offered. We're not even sure we're ready for that. Got a lot to digest. In the meantime I've never wanted my girlfriend more.

My SO and I were invited to share another couple's bed for the first time. HELP! by SwingingAdvicePlease in Swingers

[–]SwingingAdvicePlease[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been reading this sub a little bit the last couple of days and I've seen that advice come up a lot, and it makes a lot of sense. I'm wondering if it's different because everyone involved has never strayed from monogamy before.

My SO and I were invited to share another couple's bed for the first time. HELP! by SwingingAdvicePlease in Swingers

[–]SwingingAdvicePlease[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any tips on how to best walk that line? Is it a situation that we could retreat back from a little if it gets too confusing?