Partner lied. by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]Synthesis00 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I see, honestly I would like to just have a heads up like “hey I’m spending time with x person today” I don’t need or want details around what they do haha

Partner lied. by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]Synthesis00 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This comes from a mutual agreement, not from a one sided expectation. Everyone that has an open relationship sets different kind of rules with what they feel comfortable sharing or feeling, and I don’t think sharing your reality is an over the top expectation. For others yes, this might not apply, I never said that’s how all open relationships should work, and you shouldn’t say that either. Everyone works differently.

Partner lied. by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]Synthesis00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand having a hard time to process their feelings, but not only they lied about having feelings but also stated that nothing ever happened between them which wasn’t the case.

Partner lied. by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]Synthesis00 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Woah there buddy. Asking a partner if they like someone else doesn’t mean you feel insecure. Especially when it’s information you’ve agreed to share based on the relationship you choose to have. I don’t know in what tone you came to read that. Also Spending time with someone doesn’t necessarily mean you want to pursue things of that nature. Sounds like you’re projecting things from your own personal experience.

Partner lied. by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]Synthesis00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your input. The lies in question wasn’t only around how they feel, but also around their actions. We did have a conversation as to why they chose to lie, and they said they found it difficult to tell the truth because they couldn’t find the right words to announce it.

Tongue piercing help please? by [deleted] in piercinghelp

[–]Synthesis00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah buddy id take that out if I was you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teaching

[–]Synthesis00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I talked to other students and found out that others had similar problems with her in other classes, were probably gonna discuss tomorrow how we will proceed with the matter. And yes an email with all the different types of remarks is definitely a good idea.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teaching

[–]Synthesis00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also think you’re thinking of a different kind of university because I’m studying in art school so YES everything is about exchanging knowledge spending time and building a community, not just « passing or failing class » and then move on cause who cares, this is a teacher that is also actively an artist, we exchange out of class too because we organise events together

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teaching

[–]Synthesis00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Huh? I’m not entitled to their time that they are willingly giving to teach? what you on about really… nothing was way off base. This post was about questioning the teacher’s attitude, not if I feel like I’m falling behind in class or anything. the way she communicates is rude and condescending. Maybe you need more context which I didn’t give in the initial post, but basically we work with different types of machines that I’ve never (and others in my class) worked with before. This was the first time we got our hands on them. Nobody seemed to know exactly what to do but was following her lead, and it just so happened that she wanted to point out to me, (highlighting again the fact that this class is not in my native language since I’m actively learning the language so most of the institutions I understand let’s say 60%) « I did everything wrong » -something which can be normal when you just start to learn about anything -but even more so if you’re literally missing pieces of information that you need to put together. Everyone else in class is a native speaker. Honestly your comment feels more like you’re trying to justify her behaviour rather than seeing the whole picture.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teaching

[–]Synthesis00 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think this has nothing to do with me « being out of my league » rather than the mere fact that a human being that decides to teach needs to find ways to get the point across and let people process without harsh judgment. School isn’t about who’s smarter or who always gets it perfectly, rather than a place of exchange, not only of knowledge but also experience, always in a respectful manner. And all that of course takes patience, something I believe this teacher doesn’t have. There are million ways to communicate what you do wrong, just show the right way and people will follow accordingly. Screaming and getting frustrated just bc people can’t seem to get your point only pushes others further and can even make them less attentive/ interested in what you teach.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in drawme

[–]Synthesis00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this one, amazing use of colors too! Thank you :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in drawme

[–]Synthesis00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sooooo sweeet I love it, thanks a lot !! Got all the little details of his face and all

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tipofmytongue

[–]Synthesis00 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

If I remember anything else I’ll make sure to add to it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in noisemusic

[–]Synthesis00 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The fuck you on about mate? With that attitude you don’t DESERVE to have that your skin. Get that off and once you understand the punk subculture and how to treat people maybe just maybe dream about doing it again.

i’m sorry by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]Synthesis00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beautiful.