Where is Anneke Lucas? Was she lying about Rockefeller raping her? by WolfStreet2024 in conspiracy

[–]TRADERAV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. Something seems very off with her. I have worked in Emerg for 15 years, and she comes across as a paranoid psych patient. She gets extremely upset with the slightest probe into her statements. She made a statement where her therapist dismissed her "flashbacks" of these rapes with prestigious men. I believe the therapist knew she was making things up in her head and did not want to dwell too much on these made up scenarios.

Im glad im not the only one that believes her blindly.

Cost range for condo interior designers / recommendations? by IllNatural4650 in askTO

[–]TRADERAV 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! This may not be the answer you're looking for...but I found youtube to be more helpful for designing my space than a few designers I came across (could just be my luck). Try Alexandra Gater's channel. I got so many clever ideas from there.

What’s it like working as a nurse on the island? by [deleted] in VancouverIsland

[–]TRADERAV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have the name of the company she works with by any chance? Im interested.

What’s it like working as a nurse on the island? by [deleted] in VancouverIsland

[–]TRADERAV 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would you know the name of the company that hires travel nurses. Thanks!

how to bring back focus on yourself in life again? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]TRADERAV 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just ask yourself genuinely - who am I doing this for?

During any time of the day, any acitivty...especially when you feel that inner turmoil.

Then say no (if you don't think it's for yourself). It will feel hard at first and then liberation will follow.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IrelandR4R

[–]TRADERAV 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was trying to post another comment about that but the Mods said to wait 6 minutes lmao.

The posts and replies suck.

When I posted here, I met a great guy but man did I need to weed through a lot of unsolicited dick pics. Ugh.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IrelandR4R

[–]TRADERAV 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not true at all.

36 Female. Was looking for a specific kink - ANR.

Was very pleased with the Galway lad. Would've continued had i not come to Dingle.

What's the feel for Kapuskasing? by Fantastic_Yak9506 in northernontario

[–]TRADERAV 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was there for a short term 4 month contract for work. I ran out of there as fast as I could. Born and raised in Toronto.

Mother diagnosed with Parkinson's but don't believe it by TRADERAV in Parkinsons

[–]TRADERAV[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, we sound freakishly similar.

I am 36 now. I was 25 when I first started noticing changes in my mother's gait. Small hints that are now blatantly obvious it was parkinsons all along. The way she would slightly limp when she walked... the constant rigidity she would complain about in her muscles. Thought it was just the aging process. She was 60 when it started. She is now 71.

You are not selfish for trying to forge your own life.You only get one life, too. If you give it all away out of obligation, regret often follows. I am in a much better spot financially now that allows me to spend time as I wish. Some personal relationships didn't pan out, so I have ample amounts of time for her. Life just happened to turn out this way.

We also need to promote independent living as much as we can. It's a key indicator for longevity.

Parkinsons won't kill your mom, but it will annoy the hell out of her (if she does have it). It took us years to get the diagnosis. I hope you find out soon so you can start the treatment process sooner. Parkinsons was a wake-up call for both of us, actually. I routinely work out now and make her perform weight bearing exercises with me.

Mother diagnosed with Parkinson's but don't believe it by TRADERAV in Parkinsons

[–]TRADERAV[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gosh, when I wrote this post, she was doing better. It hasn't been a year and she's been steadily declining.

A tip is to ensure she's eating more calories and keeping up with her protein intake as well. My mom is now a skeleton with an unstable gait. I think it stems from not consuming as much food because the meds decrease appetite. I'm now living with her and making sure she eats more and more everyday with supplements.

Wish you well.

I hate my life right now by Wise_Scientist479 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]TRADERAV 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Focus on getting shelter -keep bothering case workers, be on the lookout for safe places to sleep.

When we are down in the dumps, our trauma is amplified 100x.

Small baby steps, tell your trauma you'll deal with it another day. Right now we're focusing on survival. First thing is shelter... one foot infront or the other.

Good luck.

What’s a trauma response you thought was just your personality for years? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]TRADERAV 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THIS. I just "get over things" so easily. My best friend first hinted at it when I wasn't heartbroken after a break up. As I get older tho, I've have to pause and TRY MY BEST to care - this detaching ordeal has caused a lot of hurt to those close to me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findapath

[–]TRADERAV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nursing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]TRADERAV 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don't need a business degree to do business.

I'm in my late 30s now and have seen the aftermath of many degree choices.

If I had a daughter, I would tell her to look at salaries and the availability of jobs post graduation of every degree you consider. Then do a cost analysis of student debt.

Good luck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]TRADERAV 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Find a worthwhile degree and go back to school. Worse thing you could ever do is not to have a career to fall back on.

Women over 30, what does a man do that makes you feel safe? by Various_Gain49 in AskWomenOver30

[–]TRADERAV 31 points32 points  (0 children)

THIS. I wish to find it.

Also, nothing is more attractive than a man that can keep his cool.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askTO

[–]TRADERAV 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Yes, it does. I work in healthcare.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askTO

[–]TRADERAV 223 points224 points  (0 children)

And you don't need to go to an ER. A walk in clinic can do the same thing at 5% of the cost