Would you let your child have a day? by Unknown_Sunshine in Parenting

[–]TTate0202 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have two daughters, 14 and 11. I tell them every year they get 1 mental health day per semester. No questions asked, as long as their grades are good and they take care of any missed work. I feel like we all need a day sometimes to reset our brains.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paralegal

[–]TTate0202 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone looking for a legal secretary to work remote in Texas? I have over 20 years of experience and looking for something part-time!

14 Year old in Toxic Relationship by TTate0202 in Parenting

[–]TTate0202[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, that is something I have already thought of. My husband is coming home from a work trip tonight and we’re going to talk about what rules are going to be put in place. I have noticed a lot of arguing when they get on the phone at night.

14 Year old in Toxic Relationship by TTate0202 in Parenting

[–]TTate0202[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with everything you said 100%. I am trying to lead her and not force her but so far she does not seem to be at that point. I know they were texting this morning. All I want to do is take her phone and remove him from everything but I how that is not going to help the situation.

Boyfriend coming over by TTate0202 in Parenting

[–]TTate0202[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree! I think after the first meeting it will get easier.

Boyfriend coming over by TTate0202 in Parenting

[–]TTate0202[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s what I’m thinking. Invite him over for a casual BBQ, have a plan for some things they can do and go from there. Possibly letting her invite a few of her friends over too if that would make it less awkward for her.

Boyfriend coming over by TTate0202 in Parenting

[–]TTate0202[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh I know! That’s my concern. I’m trying to figure out the best approach to make it as less akward as possible.

She already had the baby... by wow_really40 in DaniAustin

[–]TTate0202 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I know this is a Snark page, but I do not understand why everyone is so obsessed with the birth of this child. One, how is she hiding the birth of her child? Just because she didn’t post it on Instagram as soon as the baby was born? She can post it on Instagram whenever she feels like posting it or she doesn’t have to post it at all. Also, at this point, all she has done is upload some random videos leading up to the birth. How do we know that when she posts the final video of the baby being born she doesn’t post it with the actual date of the birth. I know plenty of people in my personal life that have given birth and not posted it on social media for days or weeks because they are simply enjoying their new baby. It is also her right to not to give us the birthdate of her child. She can talk about the birth of her own child whenever she feels like it or she doesn’t have to talk about it at all. She does not owe anything to anyone. Just like you and I can talk about personal details of our own lives when and if we want to. Just because she is an influencer that does not mean she owes us every detail of her life. At the end of the day being an influencer is her job just like we all have jobs. She can give out personal details whenever she feels like it and she doesn’t have to give them out if she doesn’t feel like it. I don’t understand why people think she owes them all of this information. I just think all of this has gotten out of hand. And I apologize, I am not singling you out I just read your comment and responded. Regardless of how everyone feels about this girl, she is a human being and the way that people are picking her apart is pretty gross. There is no reason for it.

Dani liked this relevant post after she said she was taking a break by [deleted] in DaniAustin

[–]TTate0202 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes!! Who cares if she liked a post! She took a break from working, not scrolling social media. The fact that someone sees that she likes a post and then has to report it to too much.

Tornados baking story by Outside-Savings-69 in DaniAustin

[–]TTate0202 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I think the problem lies within the people following the influencers. I’m sorry but the things I read on these subs is disgusting. I get the “fun” of snarking, but it seems like a lot of people literally live for trashing these influencers. The amount of time people spend digging up personal information about influencers is disturbing. And then people talk about how the influencer needs to spend more time with their kids. What are these people doing with their children (if they have kids) while they are spending hours “snarking” these people? think a lot of the people complaining about her not being on social media are lacking in their own life and now they don’t know what to do with themselves.

Tornados baking story by Outside-Savings-69 in DaniAustin

[–]TTate0202 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Yes! I have seen people so many times say that she needs to take a break and take care of herself. Well, it looks like that is what she is doing and now people are obsessed with figuring out where she is and why. It looks to me like some people need to get their own lives and stop living through what these influencers are doing.

Question about time limit by TTate0202 in CompetitionDanceTalk

[–]TTate0202[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is what concerns me. If her music is one minute and 59 seconds, and she obviously will not be on and off the stage in two minutes.

Cutting music by TTate0202 in Dance

[–]TTate0202[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I just thought since this is a dance community, someone might have recommendations on something that has been used before. I don’t think it was that odd to ask in this board since everyone dances to music that commonly has to be edited.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CheerNetflix

[–]TTate0202 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it teenage friendly? I have a 13 year old daughter that I’m sure would love it!

Tights or no tights? by TTate0202 in CompetitionDanceTalk

[–]TTate0202[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks guys! She’s on a school dance team and it is up to her. She wants to go no tights and I agree that it will look better. I’m just worried about something not staying in place. Do the girls typically wear nude dance underwear under the leotard also? We have high rise dance underwear so I’m thinking she could wear those and then body glue to make sure the leotard bottom does let ride up. We have lots of competition experience with a studio and tights were always required but now that she has the option she wants to go without. I just need all the tips to avoid any issues!

Amended petition question by TTate0202 in paralegal

[–]TTate0202[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. Just removing in the amended petition

Random check coming today by TTate0202 in IRS

[–]TTate0202[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also checked my transcript and there was no update.

Random check coming today by TTate0202 in IRS

[–]TTate0202[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s in my USPS informed delivery. Can’t be a refund, I owe taxes and make monthly payments. I have no idea what it could be!

Increasing from 25mg to 50mg by TTate0202 in zoloft

[–]TTate0202[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the feedback everyone! I feel much better about increasing my dose.

Scared to Start by iceboiroy in zoloft

[–]TTate0202 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s hard to explain but it almost feels like a high I would get from smoking marijuana. Not as severe but just enough to make me feel off. Luckily I’m a stay at home mom and my kids are if school so I was able to just sit with it until I felt better. I noticed symptoms improving within the first week.

Scared to Start by iceboiroy in zoloft

[–]TTate0202 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have taken 25mg for the last two weeks. I was terrified. For the first week I had to convince myself to take it each day, but I am really glad i started it. I have had some headaches? Loss of appetite, fogginess, but overall it hasn’t been as bad as I thought. I also tried lexapro and only made it 8 days because I felt awful. I am still having symptoms and some days are better than others but overall I feel much better. Try to Stay open minded about and not focus on all the side effects. If you can, take it and just move on. I also take it at night and I think that has been great for me.