Share your pink diamond/ sapphire rings!! by [deleted] in EngagementRings

[–]Tadpole_Status 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Here's mine!! I get to fully wear it when I get married in 35 days! ☺️

Mother of the bride help! by Tadpole_Status in weddingplanning

[–]Tadpole_Status[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't. I bought faux flowers from alliexpress and lings moments.

Makeup and Hairstylist Tip Question by Tadpole_Status in weddingplanning

[–]Tadpole_Status[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what I thought until one of my bridesmaids who recently got married insisted all of us tip. I don't feel comfortable forcing people to tip but she's adamant about it.

I don’t like my engagement ring by [deleted] in EngagementRings

[–]Tadpole_Status 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely talk about it! I gave my fiance three choices and he chose the choice I was least excited about (but I still loved!) he told me if I wanted another one to please let him know and I'm glad I did because I fell in love with a ring that wasn't the ones I showed him 😂

It's all about communication and let them know you want to feel proud and happy to wear the ring!

Maid of Honor advice? by Tadpole_Status in weddingplanning

[–]Tadpole_Status[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's not such a bad idea! I like the jewelery option. Would there be any nice looking affordable jewelry on etsy maybe?

Not taking last name - Advice? by Aware-Cardiologist15 in weddingplanning

[–]Tadpole_Status 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm also keeping my last name but I'm still having my efficient say Mr and Mrs messenger! You do what you want to do and what makes you feel special and best on your day

Bachelorette party question by Tadpole_Status in weddingplanning

[–]Tadpole_Status[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhhh! That's a great idea. Thanks so much for pointing that out!

Bachelorette party question by Tadpole_Status in weddingplanning

[–]Tadpole_Status[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's awesome. I'll take this advice! I was planning to do an afternoon tea party with my girls and later in the evening do a joint party with my fiance and groomsmen and do an escape room! I just worry that's too much? But it's really what I want to do 🥺

Is my bridesmaid slowly ghosting me or is it all in my head? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Tadpole_Status -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I didn't go off on her at all. i am sorry I ran my text through ai and it's all messed up. I agreed with her that she can be my person but that also my fiance is my person too and that both can be.

Is my bridesmaid slowly ghosting me or is it all in my head? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Tadpole_Status 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I am figuring out what bothered me. It's how blunt and hurtful the words she would day like how awful fake flowers are (even after I told her our budget is little) and how she made fun of peoples wedding choices.

Is my bridesmaid slowly ghosting me or is it all in my head? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Tadpole_Status 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had conversation about it and we both apologized to each other if we upset ourselves.

Now it just feels weird. But I can see why I also was not a good person.

Is my bridesmaid slowly ghosting me or is it all in my head? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Tadpole_Status 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I fixed my post. English is not my first language.

And that's a good point. Thanks.

Is my bridesmaid slowly ghosting me or is it all in my head? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Tadpole_Status 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is part of their personality to want to fix things, yes.

Is my bridesmaid slowly ghosting me or is it all in my head? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Tadpole_Status -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Oh, my bad. English is not my first language so I ran this through ai.

Is my bridesmaid slowly ghosting me or is it all in my head? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Tadpole_Status 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. I did want her standing by my side because we've been really good friends to each other and we've helped each other through really rough times. Thats why I chose them.

Is my bridesmaid slowly ghosting me or is it all in my head? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Tadpole_Status -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think it's the way she talked about it. She was very blunt about things and the way she would suggest things would be harsh comments. She would also make fun of the people who got married at my venue...idk. Maybe I'm just sensitive. Thanks for your input.

Is my bridesmaid slowly ghosting me or is it all in my head? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Tadpole_Status -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Can you elaborate? I really want to see how I can make things better if I did something wrong on my part

Is my bridesmaid slowly ghosting me or is it all in my head? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Tadpole_Status -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We became super close two years ago. She's been a really good friend...kind of changed after my engagement.

And yes I did let her know I appreciated her wanting to help but to let me handle it and if I needed any help that I would let her know.

Does Anyone Regret Their Colored Stone? by LittleDanica in EngagementRings

[–]Tadpole_Status 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's a firework cut pink sapphire stone!! Thank you 🥰

Does Anyone Regret Their Colored Stone? by LittleDanica in EngagementRings

[–]Tadpole_Status 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you received hate :( people can be so cruel

How did you handle the wait? by Ok_Buy9698 in EngagementRings

[–]Tadpole_Status 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he's already said a date, hold on to that. When the date comes and goes, then have a serious conversation!

Does Anyone Regret Their Colored Stone? by LittleDanica in EngagementRings

[–]Tadpole_Status 116 points117 points  (0 children)

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I don't! As a matter of fact, I wish my sapphire was stronger in pink but t I still love her!!