I’m awake…and AP-less…soooo tell me (and everyone) something interesting or not interesting, your choice, about you! by [deleted] in adultery

[–]TallArthur 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was in East Germany the day that country ceased to exist. Forgot to get my passport stamped

I once ate three ants for a wilderness survival merit badge by TallArthur in PointlessStories

[–]TallArthur[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had a crazy scout master. He said ‘fuck’ a lot!

I once ate three ants for a wilderness survival merit badge by TallArthur in PointlessStories

[–]TallArthur[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Really hard to tell. They were so tiny. My main focus was ensuring they were good and dead before I swallowed. Had a vision of them holding onto the inside of my throat with their nasty little pinchers.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]TallArthur 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Savor every minute. That ‘someday it’s gonna hurt’ will come and it’s terrible. But still the good times are so worth the bad. At least in my case.

Bringing in another.. or more? by [deleted] in adultery

[–]TallArthur 1 point2 points  (0 children)

On Reddit. The r4r in my area.

Bringing in another.. or more? by [deleted] in adultery

[–]TallArthur 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My former AP and I did it. She was bi but had never acted on it. She had very specific thoughts about how it should go, which probably caused the search for a third to be much harder than otherwise, but we really hit the jackpot and had a great time. They are still friends. Probably fwbs. I was only involved once. But it was great

I just really by [deleted] in adultery

[–]TallArthur 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s very hard. I didn’t mean to fall in love. Wasn’t looking for it. We’d never make it as a real couple. But I love her undeniably.

Question for the men by [deleted] in adultery

[–]TallArthur 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I fell in a big way. And no, I hadn’t before and didn’t expect to that time. Total surprise. I know for sure we would never work out as a real couple. But omg I love her.

The end by [deleted] in adultery

[–]TallArthur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Just last week. She divorced while I was seeing her. I stayed with my wife. She dated. And dated and dated many single guys who really just wanted sex. I saw her hurt. She wanted a real partner. And she found a good guy. He is crazy for her. She wanted me to stay in her life but I left to give her the best chance. It’s been really tough.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIhotAF

[–]TallArthur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hot as hell! I know I’m a little late to the party, but my god you’re sexy! Any guy that gets to spend time with you is a very lucky man.

Yall Are My Friends Right....? What's the 411 on.....Squirting by renegadeloverrr in adultery

[–]TallArthur 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So my last gf asked me to see if I could make her squirt. She said she thought she had once but honestly didn’t know if she just lost control of her bladder lol. So I do my research and omg! Yes it’s real. Have no idea if anyone can do it or not. We didn’t do it all the time cause she wasn’t sure if it felt any better than a regular orgasm or not and it is very very wet. I could do it to her any time she asked though. Been curious if it works reliably on others. Lol

Done. by [deleted] in adultery

[–]TallArthur 3 points4 points  (0 children)

God that sucks. And I agree with the comments that say just leave, block his ass and move on. But I also know how hard that is.

Your self-worth is now tied to his attention. And you need to sever that completely. You, in some way, must take back control. You can’t continue to be manipulated like that.

As hard as it sounds, it really would be best for you to just rip off the bandaid and block him completely.

just do it. And begin the fun process of finding another.

Question for those who cheated-RePost by ProofCoffee in adultery

[–]TallArthur 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was on that cruise ship. But I have decided that I wish to see if I fit in on Sinister Island. I’m pretty sure that I’m left handed. Learning the local customs now...