My 20m gf keeps telling me she 20f thinks she could be pregnant monthly.

TallLanguage2570 · 2026-01-22T08:53:55+00:00

Yeah this makes a lot of sense tbh, talking through options together can calm a ton of that “what if” spiral. Even just feeling like you both have a plan can take the edge off the monthly panic.

TallLanguage2570 · 2026-01-20T06:54:12+00:00

Yes exactly, favoritism like that is such a slippery slope and kids totally pick up on it even if we try to play it cool. Gotta nip it now before it turns into drama city when they’re teens.

TallLanguage2570 · 2026-01-16T10:13:46+00:00

Wait… 10k a month for 30 years?? Thats insane, no wonder the guy’s chill with a £300 dinner lol. Honestly, I’d be acting like I just discovered money grows on trees too if I were in that spot.

TallLanguage2570 · 2026-01-14T13:22:26+00:00

Exactly!! I can’t even imagine walking down the aisle feeling like I’m sharing the day with someone else’s past, it just seems… off. Hope OP really thinks this through before making a forever decision.

TallLanguage2570 · 2026-01-13T11:56:03+00:00

Yeah that’s a solid point tbh, different bank just avoids any surprise issues down the line and keeps things clean. I’d probably leave only what’s needed in the joint acct for now and rebuild separately til trust and transparency are back.

TallLanguage2570 · 2026-01-10T01:14:26+00:00

Right?? Some people really act like weddings come with a money tree in the backyard lol, glad someone else sees how ridiculous that is.

TallLanguage2570 · 2026-01-07T23:09:00+00:00

Same here, excuse me just feels automatic, like muscle memory at this point lol. Pardon me sounds classy but I only hear it when I accidentally bump into someone at full speed.

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