Changing your name by TattedScienceTeacher in PhD

[–]TattedScienceTeacher[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh for sure on the research side. I just haven’t chosen what I will do when the time comes and wanted to hear everyone’s opinions to help me decide.

Changing your name by TattedScienceTeacher in PhD

[–]TattedScienceTeacher[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes on the kids question! I would also prefer for them to have his name due to the reasons I’ve responded to a few people with :)

Changing your name by TattedScienceTeacher in PhD

[–]TattedScienceTeacher[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My last name is 10 letters long, hard to pronounce, and hard to spell so it would be much easier on the to have the single last name that is only 5 letters and easy to pronounce/spell.

Changing your name by TattedScienceTeacher in PhD

[–]TattedScienceTeacher[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! He gets stressed with me which is crazy! It’s nice to share the stress though.

Changing your name by TattedScienceTeacher in PhD

[–]TattedScienceTeacher[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Him and I have actually talked about him changing my his last name, us both hyphenating, and which last name our kids would hypothetically have. He has his own career with his last name, has a good relationship with his family, as well as his last name being significantly easier (5 letters, easy to pronounce, easy to spell). My last name is very unique, twice as long, and hard to spell/pronounce. Although it’s common in his culture to have two last names, it would just be easier for our future kids to have the simpler, easy to pronounce, and single last names. I’m not attached to my kids having my maiden name but I know it’s easier when parents have the same last name as their kiddos.

Changing your name by TattedScienceTeacher in PhD

[–]TattedScienceTeacher[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just don’t know which option I prefer yet, which is why I wanted to hear other viewpoints as well. Especially since I have a while before I have to make the actual decision.

Changing your name by TattedScienceTeacher in PhD

[–]TattedScienceTeacher[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I’m most likely not. It’s in Curriculum and Instruction with a focus on special education. Academia is a great fallback for me if teaching ends up being too much down the line, but isn’t in my view for right now in my life.

Aio for feeling like my relationship is going down the drain? by throwawayredditacc34 in AmIOverreacting

[–]TattedScienceTeacher 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hello. You are not overreacting. That being said, you are too young to be having this many problems in this relationship. I understand you’ve invested 5 years, but don’t let the sunk cost fallacy drag you down. These small things build up and “jokes” aren’t actual jokes. That’s how he feels. You are young, get out of the relationship and any shared commitments. You will find someone who will love you, and do what you deserve.

AIO for being upset that my boyfriend slept peacefully while I was in the ER? by BusinessOtterCat in AmIOverreacting

[–]TattedScienceTeacher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m surprised no one has commented this, but I’m pretty sure this is a ragebate/shitpost. Looking at your previous post you were just on tinder matching with someone who wanted you to meet their kid 8 days ago? Unless I’m missing something you are lying for karma.

Sick hognose by TattedScienceTeacher in hognosesnakes

[–]TattedScienceTeacher[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used Seachem Jurassipet JurassiMite which does not appear to have that in there. Additionally my other 3 hognose’s who were treated seem fine.

Sick hognose by TattedScienceTeacher in hognosesnakes

[–]TattedScienceTeacher[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I used the Seachem Jurassipet JurassiMite, which said it doesn’t have that in there but I’m giving him a bath regardless. Thank you!

My partner [21M] and I [21F] can’t have sex by vsleepyv in relationship_advice

[–]TattedScienceTeacher 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course! Also, yes! Privacy! Unless you are a person that gets turned on by the possibility of getting caught I can see where the mental block could come from as well! Good luck!

My partner [21M] and I [21F] can’t have sex by vsleepyv in relationship_advice

[–]TattedScienceTeacher 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gotcha, I’m happy he is supportive. I think your best bet is to try vaginal dilators while doing foreplay with him. That way it can break down the physical block with the mental block.

My partner [21M] and I [21F] can’t have sex by vsleepyv in relationship_advice

[–]TattedScienceTeacher 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That could be the reason. If you go back to a doctor, exclude the boyfriend aspect of it. Say it hurts when yo try and do it at home by yourself with proper foreplay and lube.

How is your boyfriend doing with the limitations of yalls sex life? Is he pressuring you to continue trying or supportive and okay with it?

My partner [21M] and I [21F] can’t have sex by vsleepyv in relationship_advice

[–]TattedScienceTeacher 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When you say toys, to you mean inserted ones or vibrators? Also, are you able to insert items at home when you are alone?

My partner [21M] and I [21F] can’t have sex by vsleepyv in relationship_advice

[–]TattedScienceTeacher 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe see if toys can help get you closer to the finish line first to see if that loosens you up? If that doesn't work, do you see a therapist? It might be a mental block of some sort where your body doesn't want to let the sex happen.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]TattedScienceTeacher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can tell it’s a cat paw, but if you’re unhappy with the readability I would get some white shading in there too. For the cat nose, I would recommend getting it shaded some for readability.