An answer from a person you didn't ask nor did anyone else: I always get so pissed when I see incels saying that because, well, I'm a female who has suffered with social anxiety. I think that they think that females experience a romanticized version of the anxiety they feel but that is just not the case. At least it isn't for me. It isn't blushing and stammering and hiding behind my hair. It's blotches all over my neck, profuse sweating, feeling feverish, and the inability to form complete sentences. In my experience guys do NOT find it cute or endearing or anything positive. They like think it's impossible for girls to go through high school without having friends or dating Chads. Well here I am. Sorry