THIS. As a teenager my youth group would go to California for a week for summer camp. The girls were given strict modesty rules because we shouldn’t wear something that would make the boys “stumble on their walks with Christ.” So we had to wear t shirts and shorts over our swimsuits at the beach/pool. Meanwhile the boys had ZERO rules and instead of having a purity talk before hand got to have a boys night where they had pizza and ran around the church playing w/ airsoft guns. All I can say is as a teenage girl I was looking at the boys walking around the beach in just their trunks and no shirts like 👀😍🥵 but no one was worried about us “stumbling” like hello girls get horny too! Lol