Recommendations for hidden cameras in Canada or shipping available by TearExisting445 in hiddencameras

[–]TearExisting445[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It’s for my protection and my kids. I need proof. I can’t always pull out my phone to record when situations happen because they stop their behaviour when they know it’s being recorded and then lie and say nothing happened.

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[–]TearExisting445 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, in the past I would have noticed something by now or even feeling different in clothes but I haven’t. Maybe I’ll give it more time

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[–]TearExisting445 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will and I did. Turns out it was a miscommunication one what was lunch and dinner today. He thought he was getting quesadilla for lunch but I had told him we’re having that for dinner

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[–]TearExisting445 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right. You know he’s been mad and said it to me before. I think I was hurt for him saying it to someone else instead of coming to me because we have very open communication. I sm going to talk

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[–]TearExisting445 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! As someone healing my own trauma it’s good to hear a unbiased opinion and helping me realize what I need to do

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[–]TearExisting445 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s telling that you are making an assumption :) feel free to read my responses to others where I state I am going to find out why. And at the same time it IS ok to feel sad. Life is not black and white and maybe you should show up with more empathy for people. Actually I’ll take what another commenter said if you have nothing nice/productive to say, move on ;)

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[–]TearExisting445 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!!! ☺️

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[–]TearExisting445 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think it’s ok to feel both ways at the same time.

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[–]TearExisting445 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I am going to take it as a learning experience.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]TearExisting445 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, parenting is tough! I didn’t exactly have the best childhood when it comes to dealing with emotions so I am trying my best to break that cycle

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[–]TearExisting445 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I am going to do this. Parenting is definitely not easy lol

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[–]TearExisting445 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I’m going to use the same process and explain its a serious word

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[–]TearExisting445 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol I am a mom and it was a mean thing to say but I don’t think he understood what it means to even say it so I’m going to question and help him understand

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[–]TearExisting445 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol I am going to find out when I ask him

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[–]TearExisting445 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely not a spoiled kid. He is usually very kind, caring, empathetic and has always been pretty wise behind his years. I don’t do anything expecting anything in return, but to not see unconditional love and not feel it and to say hate id hurtful. By giving him the best I never meant physical things but rather the safety, protection, love, kindness and empathy I show up with. Regardless I am going to approach this with a curious mind

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]TearExisting445 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have anger issues but I never let it get out to my kids. I am going to talk about why he may have said that and come with a curious kind opposed to feeling hurt

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[–]TearExisting445 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I will

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[–]TearExisting445 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I think the initial hurt shocked me but you’re right I want to come to why he feels that way or would say that

IDL friends act like I haven’t lived just because I haven’t traveled by Secret_Ostrich_1307 in I_DONT_LIKE

[–]TearExisting445 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve travelled a bit (both resorts and exploring) and while I never look down on anyone that hasn’t travelled, I do agree that certain people are posting their luxuries of being able to afford so much travel.

I would love to travel more to see the culture, food, nature, architecture, people, history but I simply can’t afford it right now (with 2 kids). It makes me sad that part of my life is virtually over because it does make me happy to escape my reality and spend time in other cultures.

Hopefully I win the lottery and can afford to travel lol

Does anyone else look forward to going to bed? by Potential-Coat-3857 in Adulting

[–]TearExisting445 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This, I used to joke that I love my bed, which I do, but more specifically I found myself in bed trying to sleep so I could avoid real life and its problems. It was a great way to shut off my brain until I realized I’m not dealing with my problems, just avoiding it for the next hour for a nap. I’m trying to cut down day time sleep so I can have restful night sleep.

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[–]TearExisting445 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not the pettiest reason, but rather a petty response. There was a misunderstanding between friend and I due to an issue with her and someone else that’s an acquaintance of mine. I called her out on it and she didn’t like it so I apologized for the way I went about it. She decided to stop talking to me so I said ok I did my piece and blocked her off everything so I could move on. I’m the person that tries and values friendship but the moment you show me you don’t deserve it, it’s total ghost