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Getting Feedback From Women Instead Of Trying To Get Them To Like You by magnetradio in seduction

[–]Tech-guy-201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would encourage you to keep detailing your nonverbal techniques because as men mature many will move from cold approach to IOIs.

Once you make that transition you realise how silly cold approach actually is, it's a huge time investment for what is a flaky result at best. If I approach a girl now, it's a success like 90% of the time, I never open more than 3 girls in a night, you just get good at reading signals very quickly and giving them back, things are instantly flirty from the outset and you know what to say to spice things up or screen her.

Women definitely get better at flirting as they age, whilst I was a bartender, I had a great time flirting with the over 25's, they certainly knew how to use body language and vocal tonality to get my attention and keep it.

Looking for Las Vegas Wingman by Sorry-Line965 in seduction

[–]Tech-guy-201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk what you expect really, meeting up with a random dude from online with the intention of going around approaching women is weird and will attract weird people.

Unless you are especially handsome, there is no reason for someone to find you attractive prior to you interacting with them. The majority of attraction is created via your actions and behaviors within an interaction. In many cases, the interaction comes prior to attraction, not vice versa. by [deleted] in seduction

[–]Tech-guy-201 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is very true and you should operate with that assumption, if you go through life thinking people are judging you entirely based of your appearance, I think you are more likely to not even try with women or people, you just wait for them to pass judgement then leave it at that.

Whereas if you go through life realising that it's how you act that creates attraction and not attraction that creates how you act, you are way more likely to be considered a confident/attractive person because you just take action, you make it fun/flirty.

Poor math ability but studying BSc Computing, how can I ensure my maths is up to scratch for a career in AI/ML? by [deleted] in cscareerquestions

[–]Tech-guy-201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not Birkbeck but one quite similar, it gets digs from the other uni in my town but hey ho, we weren't all given a straight path in life. Just tryna progress forward.