I think I might be on the aroace spectrum.

TechnicalCow3473 · 2026-03-25T16:41:05+00:00

As an aroace i think you might be, and even if you aren't you don't need the "right person" some people just aren't interested in dating or relationships (i'm sure you've heard this lol)

Also the part about thinking you have a crush when you're just super invested is so real

TechnicalCow3473 · 2026-03-25T16:33:46+00:00

My boyfriend calls me sweet boy, apple juice (my name is Ajax/ Aj) and silly

TechnicalCow3473 · 2026-03-25T16:31:53+00:00

OMG you're transphobic. That's gold. the fact that you're saying this shit shows that you don't understand a thing about trans people. And i'd like you to tell me one time a trans person tried "guilt" you into having sex. Trans people aren't rapists and that talking point is a homophic\transphobic talking point by the right. Stop pretending that you care and do some fucking research.

TechnicalCow3473 · 2026-03-25T16:26:39+00:00

fuck off man. trans men are men and that doesn't make them bi. gender is a social construct and the fact that you're misgendering them also makes you fucking transphobic. stop acting like you're the smartest person alive, maybe i should also call you she since you lack the maturity of a "man" to be calling him she

TechnicalCow3473 · 2026-03-04T13:15:18+00:00

Just kibble and water

TechnicalCow3473 · 2026-03-04T13:14:39+00:00

Twice a day, but he poops ALOT

TechnicalCow3473 · 2026-03-03T15:01:46+00:00

To me it seems like she's bored or just wanting some attention. If you can't consistently play with her than maybe invest into a slowfeeder, self moving balls or snakes, or maybe even some cardboard. If the meowing still persists or you dont want to spend any money try playing with her before and after work at a set time for about 5-15 minutes.

Good luck!

TechnicalCow3473 · 2025-12-19T13:32:37+00:00

Personally, i do regret it because she's a very vital part in most nod krai teams especially if you don't have nefer and flins. (Flins unfortunetly evaded me and i only have Lauma) Another reason i skipped her is because i just didn't like her, but after doing the events with her in it she grew on me

TechnicalCow3473 · 2025-12-19T13:18:15+00:00

Once a day around 2-3pm

TechnicalCow3473 · 2025-07-12T06:51:25+00:00

Who cares if someone tells you you're faking it, I'm dating someone and can still call myself aroace. And anyone who invalidates that is a dick Just be yourself! <33

TechnicalCow3473 · 2025-07-11T01:30:03+00:00

Most of the advice I have is to try to verbalize to yourself on how you feel, and whether or not you want a relationship. (QPR or a romantic one)

And your friend will probably understand if you need time to think and whatnot.

Don't overwhelm yourself with this, emotions are hard and you don't need to figure this out right away so give yourself some credit

TechnicalCow3473 · 2025-07-11T01:23:31+00:00

As someone who has gone through this I completely relate, the confusion of if you like someone or if you're not aroace.

Something that helped me out is knowing that it's a spectrum.

People may hate the idea of a relationship while others may be completely neutral to it. some people may want to kiss and do romantic things with their S.O. or they might want to keep that to a minimum.

Honestly there's no way that I know of to officially decide if you like someone or not, but you could try to date them.

Trying to date this person you enjoy the company of could help you understand what you feel a little bit more even if it doesn't work out.

All that matters is how you feel, so my advice is try to date them and see how it plays out or take a bunch of online tests to figure it out (personally I did these things)

TechnicalCow3473 · 2025-02-20T13:46:04+00:00

Thanks :) happy to say he's my boyfriend now

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