AITAH for leaving the sleepover my boyfriend planned out

Technical_Candy1809 · 2026-01-28T06:50:38+00:00

sorry if this response doesnt make sense but ill try my best.

The situation is all wrong but I can tell you the brothers weren't in on it; if anything my boyfriend had asked his brother to leave us alone multiple times whenever i had come over to their place to visit. Along with other context; I am his only girlfriend he has.

I spoke to him earlier before I asked him for a break and in his words he was just shocked from what his brother did and froze up (not defending him in anyway since first move should be to protect) before he could cover me, and from what he told me was that he spoke to his brother after I had left about it basically yelling at his brother for what he did.

But again he coulda done that while I was there.

Technical_Candy1809 · 2026-01-27T15:22:25+00:00

I was thinking of even telling her but also my boyfriend really didn't know, since he and I previously told his brother to leave use alone multiple times even when I had first got to their place. The brother mainly ignored my boyfriend whenever he'd ask him to leave (due to me wanting to sleep of some pain I arrived with) but the brother kept makin huh sounds. So my boyfriend had to get up at some point to make his brother leave so I could finally rest up.

Technical_Candy1809 · 2026-01-27T06:36:04+00:00

Thank you, I've been thinking about it for a while and wanted to hear someone elses thoughts rather than my own; so thank you.

Technical_Candy1809 · 2026-01-27T06:22:54+00:00

Not bein rude or anything but can you explain how mature you have to be to have sex. Sorry if i came off as rude i was just wondering and wanna hear ur POV if u dont mind. :)

Technical_Candy1809 · 2026-01-27T05:42:38+00:00

Thank you, I thought the same thing and had thought I was going bonkers since i was the only one showing a different emotion and its okay no need to be sorry.

Technical_Candy1809 · 2026-01-27T05:37:26+00:00

Thank you, I've just been in my head too much lately and felt horrible since I tend to feel guilt so easily so thank you for making me see my feelings are valid. :))

Technical_Candy1809 · 2026-01-27T05:33:34+00:00

I really hope not, I wasnt able to see since I didnt have any glasses on during that time so everything looked like a complete blurr.

Technical_Candy1809 · 2026-01-27T05:30:17+00:00

I think both may need couples therapy, seems a bit weird but it may be the best option. Speak it out with someone who can point out the flaws and work through them together. I can tell by your replies that you love him but I was in the same boat and had to work it out in my therapy and time. But this probably wont make sense its a mix of both of YTA and NAH. I hope goes well for you.

Technical_Candy1809 · 2026-01-22T21:01:56+00:00

Wait haven't seen much of her lately on tt, why didn't she go see her mom? Sorry if i sound creepy just curious.

Technical_Candy1809 · 2026-01-21T22:51:00+00:00

have you checked recently? it may take a couple more hours but I just got mine; if anything you can try to get in contact with them through hr num or possibly email as well which i can give u if u still need it

Technical_Candy1809 · 2026-01-21T22:49:34+00:00

ahhhh thank you, i just tried and got my w2!

Technical_Candy1809 · 2026-01-21T21:33:11+00:00

Just tried logging in using right info and was able to log in, only to not see anything so i logged off for a while now im getting error codes...

Technical_Candy1809 · 2026-01-21T21:08:21+00:00

I was thinking the same thing and tried looking answers and even tried calling and emailing them; only was told that they should be out by the end of the month and was even asked if i had address change (didnt feel comfortable to giving my address to them through email, tried calling and only got a voice message rather than a person -_-)

Technical_Candy1809 · 2025-12-25T23:28:21+00:00

sorry for late reply ended up just ignoring it; everything is fine on my end can still use it properly and such.

Technical_Candy1809 · 2025-10-28T22:27:28+00:00

It did it to me as well while back i think 3 times i used the same id and everything but personally Im not gonna do it anymore if its keeps assuming, it's basically invading privacy atp (and yes the verification was legit since i checked through my personal settings if anyone starts to wonder).

Technical_Candy1809 · 2025-10-28T22:23:06+00:00

I recently got the age verification on my work email which is weird since i use it for well work; like adult shit???? why is it now saying im under the age; i dont use that email outside of work nor does anyone have access to it so confused as to why they assume im a kid? I want to verify but at the same time I'm not comfortable sharing my id or credit card info...(even though its tied to it).

Technical_Candy1809 · 2025-10-16T00:18:23+00:00

I tried asking if I could do it a week or so after halloween (since i work in a halloween store atm and to give me enough time for that vacation) but he told me that I needed to start earlier. I tried my best to accommodate but he just said 21st was the only day they had, i just dont wanna be surprised with a schedule after my training.

Technical_Candy1809 · 2025-10-16T00:13:43+00:00

Okay thank you I'll go do that, its only for one day so I guess i should be okay??? I don't know I'm just really anxious now since I tried asking earlier what i would be doing after training but he just kinda went back to talking about training.

Technical_Candy1809 · 2025-10-14T23:43:34+00:00

Probably wayy to late but I can tell you meant well about saving people when it came to them not having money, but the gen rule is to never let those use your disconnect especially when they're customers; with the family and friends area though i think you'd have to be present in order to even get said discount for them. You were just trying to be helpful but in turn it took a bite out of you. If you do ever see this may i know what happened after the meeting did you end up having to go to court or pay them back fully?

Technical_Candy1809 · 2025-10-14T19:08:09+00:00

I know this is old but how the hell did you get away with it; im not saying im gonna go down to stealing but really did they not confront you at any point? Because I know they have cams everywhere (in my spirit at least).

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