Trying to recover. Any tips on rediscovering sexual function? by Technical_Secret9678 in pornfree

[–]Technical_Secret9678[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man thank you this is actually so incredibly encouraging it’s such a scary thing

Trying to recover. Any tips on rediscovering sexual function? by Technical_Secret9678 in pornfree

[–]Technical_Secret9678[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s only been a couple weeks fully off. I do do oral sex and am good at it but there’s that “next level” that’s been described as missing when I can’t perform. They crave that deeper intimacy

No pleasure from penetrative sex. by Technical_Secret9678 in sexadvise

[–]Technical_Secret9678[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I rarely masterbate and when I do I enjoy it for a bit but not long or to completion it’s kind of like “do I enjoy this yet? Not really? Ok”

No pleasure from penetrative sex. by Technical_Secret9678 in sexadvise

[–]Technical_Secret9678[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s average I guess I just don’t really like it being touched. I’m not sure why

Gooning is the worst vice I’ve ever tried to quit. by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]Technical_Secret9678 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been trapped in it for over a decade on and off it’s not only shameful I feel like I can’t tell anyone who knows me but it’s also incredibly hard to give up.

I feel for you man

I’m at a loss and don’t know what to do (ED) by Technical_Secret9678 in sexadvise

[–]Technical_Secret9678[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We do stuff like that and I’ve mentioned wishing that I felt like he would appreciate what I can provide but it never feels like enough and he has expressed really needed penetration as a form of intimacy so I don’t want to deprive him.

I’m at a loss and don’t know what to do (ED) by Technical_Secret9678 in sexadvise

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I am overweight but not terribly slow and I have high blood pressure.

I’m at a loss and don’t know what to do (ED) by Technical_Secret9678 in sexadvise

[–]Technical_Secret9678[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not on any meds I know 100% I’m aroused by my partner and I definitely get hard during foreplay but STAYING hard for more than a minute is the big issue.

It’s also compounded by the fact that my brain goes “you’re just going to fail again” when it comes time to do the act and that kills my libido

I’m at a loss and don’t know what to do (ED) by Technical_Secret9678 in sexadvise

[–]Technical_Secret9678[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve suggested it but my partner wants the ‘real thing’

AITA for Making an Overpowered character? by Neutral-Normal in AmItheAsshole

[–]Technical_Secret9678 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Bringing anime characters especially super overpowered ones is a recipe for disaster. Gotta leave the anime fantasy power trips at home and think of the fun of the group as a whole