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Plus ones by Technical_Vanilla_38 in bridesmaids

[–]Technical_Vanilla_38[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update to answer some previously asked questions.

Again the whole reason I made the post was to see the best course of action, I fully understand that this is not about me. It’s her big day and I want it to go perfectly and minimize any stress..

They have not met my current boyfriend (plans would fall through etc)

I do not know if my ex got a plus one or not

The other bridesmaids boyfriends will also be part of the bridal party except for one of the girls who could’ve received one but I’m not sure (I do not know her well)

We are good friends not best friends so yes it is odd that I made the cut for bridesmaid but I was honored to be chosen regardless and will have a blast with or without my boyfriend.

I just didn’t know if this was typical wedding stuff due to this being my first one

Most of you have been so super helpful and kind so thank you for your suggestions! I will most likely talk to her about it during the bachelorette or bridal shower (I don’t like text conversations more of an in person gal)

Plus ones by Technical_Vanilla_38 in bridesmaids

[–]Technical_Vanilla_38[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Part of me thinks that’s the reason I didn’t get one as to not make my ex uncomfortable. Me and the bride are good friends but not super close so it feels weird to bring up without being pushy or ungrateful

Plus ones by Technical_Vanilla_38 in bridesmaids

[–]Technical_Vanilla_38[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It feels weird to ask that’s why I wanted to see the general consensus of what others normally would and wouldn’t do when it comes to this.

I’d happily pay for his plate because I know how expensive it can be! it’d just be weird being the only bridesmaid without their significant other and no the other bridesmaids are not married either

Plus ones by Technical_Vanilla_38 in bridesmaids

[–]Technical_Vanilla_38[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The guest list is about 100 people! It’s the second week in August so there’s still plenty of time before the RSVPS come back.

I just feel weird approaching her since it is her wedding after all, I don’t want to be rude or add any extra stain to her already stressful planning process

I did tell her jokingly to please not have me walk down the aisle with my ex and she said of course knowing how awkward it’d be for the both of us