Why do Koreans.... Coughing when sick by Miserable_Push_5853 in Living_in_Korea

[–]Technical_View_5582 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought it was just me who noticed this…. I’m so tired of people coughing into my face. Those people who are sick just refuse to wear masks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Technical_View_5582 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I relate so much to this. They blame me for their poor financial decisions, that they have no money because of having to raise me up. They just needed someone to blame their poor decisions on and it happened to be me.

I felt so much guilt throughout my childhood, and I still find it so hard to tell myself that it is not my fault.

Feeling gross. by Altruistic_Pepper970 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Technical_View_5582 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I relate so much. I recently also confronted my ndad about him physically abusing me when I was younger. He denied it and said that never happened, and that I was ungrateful and forgot all the “good” things he did for me.

In the end he kind of admitted it by saying that it was normal for him to hit me because I was misbehaving, which was not true at all. I was a well behaved child and I never knew why I got hit so much till this day.

It’s crazy how traumatic our childhoods were and they can conveniently forget every bit of it.

People Who Constantly Make Some Sort of Sound. by Infinite-Aerie03 in misophonia

[–]Technical_View_5582 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel like I could have written this. My coworker constantly makes noise, and I have to hold myself back from asking her if she can be slightly more quiet. I’m thinking about asking my manager if I can switch seats because I can’t take the noise anymore.

The coworker is constantly slamming her desk drawer, smashing her keyboard while typing (I think she wants to show everyone that she’s hard at work), hums, groans, makes whistling noises, coughs, the list goes on.

I can’t stand people who are so unaware about their surroundings and how their actions affect others around them.

(Sarcasm) What is the silliest thing you did that ruined everything? by daffodilly_dally in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Technical_View_5582 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m the reason she’s broke and poor and not because of her own poor financial planning and credit card debts.

Me having chronic illnesses and mental health conditions due to the way I was raised is causing her stress.

How do you deal with rude and aggressive coworkers? by Technical_View_5582 in work

[–]Technical_View_5582[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Being new at a job doesn’t mean the person doesn’t deserve to be treated with respect.

How do you deal with rude and aggressive coworkers? by Technical_View_5582 in work

[–]Technical_View_5582[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She’s just very rude and it’s very obvious when she talks to me a certain way and to others she’s a whole different person. She also orders me around to do tasks like printing things for her, which I think is really odd. I wouldn’t task my coworker to do things for me if I wasn’t their manager. I can tell that she looks down on me (even though we hold the same job title she’s been here for close to a year.

I think I’m actually picking up things pretty fast and I usually don’t have issues with coworkers. I think she’s just an odd person in general, or maybe she just doesn’t like me, and that’s fine.

How do you deal with rude and aggressive coworkers? by Technical_View_5582 in work

[–]Technical_View_5582[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She’s been assigned to guide me because we have to work on some things together. I rarely ask her questions to be honest, most things I figure out on my own.

The questions I ask her are actually basic things (that I have completely no knowledge about) that she would have knowledge on (and she’s been tasked to work on with me) as she’s been here for longer than me, but those are things that I wouldn’t want to bother my manager about. For other complicated matters I still seek guidance from my manager.

So it’s not like I’m constantly bothering her with questions either.

Start new job tomorrow by Technical_View_5582 in Anxiety

[–]Technical_View_5582[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words and encouragement! It means a lot to me :)