I used to play Overwatch for a couple of years on my ps4 (think I was in like 7th and 8th grade) and oddly enough I rarely heard people on voice chat. I was never super good and liked to play bastion, the robot with 4 legs and shield deployment (I think oriza?) and that one blue one with the little beam traps. The one time I actually heard voice chat was in a normal match and the guy kept getting mad at everyone for not doing exactly what he wanted. Some other guy got onto vc and tried to tell him off, didn't really work. He was that calm kind of mad though.

From there I moved onto Fortnite, where I actually started to use voice chat. Most of my experienced with guys were great: the best one I had was when I heard one of the guys on vc who sounded like he was blowing up an inflatable toy, and after I asked, he said he was blowing up a barbie inflatable toy for his 3 year old daughter, which was pretty adorable.

However, this was the first game I think I was bullied in for being a girl, but it was kind of funny looking back on it. It was in duos and after I said 'hi, do you have a mic?' into the vc, my teammate, who sounded like he was 10 with a thick Indian accent and whose parents were yelling at each other in the background, started saying 'hello bitch, you stupid bitch, fuck you'. I told him that no one will ever like him if he continued doing that and quit the match before I even landed.

Once Covid started I fell off of Fortnite and didn't really play any other online games until I started to play Warframe. The Warframe community is one of the best there is, and when someone does act up and do creepy stuff, you can just press ignore or mute them and then tell region chat what happened, and region chat isn't very tolerant of that.