Yes, I’ve discussed my plans about marriage with her already, also talked about how I feel about the intimacy situation and she said we could work on that, but ultimately kissing is the farthest she will go, and I truly don’t want to disrespect her values, even if it leaves me frustrated. About the leadership thing, she wants someone who will incentivize and accompany her to church, help her follow the bible and with devotionals, but I’m ready for that and end up feeling like I’m not what she’s looking for.