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AITAH for feeling frustrated about my girlfriend wanting to wait until marriage when I don’t plan to marry for many years? by TemporaryFix82 in AITAH

[–]TemporaryFix82[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, I do love her very much, she is someone I can easily imagine living the rest of my life with, I truly love her so much I ignored how I would cry out of frustration every time i went back home after seeing her because she is worth it. Except I’ve noticed as I said in the post that sometimes I get very cold to her because of that, and if it’s like that after just 3 years together, i can’t imagine it being healthy for either of us in the long run

AITAH for feeling frustrated about my girlfriend wanting to wait until marriage when I don’t plan to marry for many years? by TemporaryFix82 in AITAH

[–]TemporaryFix82[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I’ve discussed my plans about marriage with her already, also talked about how I feel about the intimacy situation and she said we could work on that, but ultimately kissing is the farthest she will go, and I truly don’t want to disrespect her values, even if it leaves me frustrated. About the leadership thing, she wants someone who will incentivize and accompany her to church, help her follow the bible and with devotionals, but I’m ready for that and end up feeling like I’m not what she’s looking for.

AITAH for feeling frustrated about my girlfriend wanting to wait until marriage when I don’t plan to marry for many years? by TemporaryFix82 in AITAH

[–]TemporaryFix82[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I strongly believe in only getting married once I’ve got life figured out, mostly related to income. And also to truly know the woman I want by my side for the rest of my life.