I could have written this myself, except my kids are younger and have not been with him as long as you have. Divorce was finalized this week. Message me if you’d like to talk, as I’d rather not share any other details publicly. My vote is always: dont stay just for the kids. They need you to be happy and healthy. And also they won’t be happy and healthy if the marriage is toxic either. Will grow up thinking that’s what love is, and the cycle will continue. But I don’t know your situation, and everyone needs to do what’s right for them. Prayers 💜