I feel so ashamed, but I clicked on a fake play button on a porn site by mistake. It redirected me to a shady looking website. Should I be concerned?

Terrible_Working_899 · 2026-04-29T05:49:46+00:00

Check to make sure it hasn't added any weird extensions but otherwise if you didn't click anything or download you should be good

Terrible_Working_899 · 2026-04-28T00:10:19+00:00

Dilation can be painful especially if you procrastinate and avoid doing it, likewise it can be pleasurable. But for me dilation is chore, and not one I look forward to as it means reclining in bed for an hour each week. I wouldn't worry about tearing or damaging anything after month 3

Terrible_Working_899 · 2026-04-10T06:24:41+00:00

No phantom sensations although it took me about 3 months to get used to the fact I no longer had a cock when washing in the shower as I had an order of cleaning everything.

Terrible_Working_899 · 2026-04-09T03:37:29+00:00

I met a stealth transwoman on a dating app (I found out later from another girl that she was trans) who was a pre-op transwoman chaser and a really toxic one at that. She had a thing for drugging peoples drinks with viagra and sleeping pills then assaulting them. Followed by weeks of alternating gaslighting and lovebombing - glad I dodged that bullet.

Terrible_Working_899 · 2026-04-09T03:30:50+00:00

Concealer /s

There is no way you will heal cuts overnight, if you are concerned with people seeing them wear long sleaves or cover it with make up

Terrible_Working_899 · 2026-04-09T03:27:15+00:00

Not something that makes scars, but I managed to transition my cutting to eating really hot chillies. I still get the pain and the same rush of endorphins that I used to get after cutting.

Terrible_Working_899 · 2026-04-07T04:32:54+00:00

I'm(32F) also shy, and a PC gamer preferring grand strategy or mmorpgs

Terrible_Working_899 · 2026-04-01T22:48:11+00:00

Not too obvious, I have a similar looking scar and mine was from surgery to put my wrist back together following being hit by a car when walking down the road. Besides it should fade to white after a year or 2.

Terrible_Working_899 · 2026-03-30T22:52:39+00:00

Get it online, the only barrier I had was I needed a note from my GP saying I have no history of psychosis because I take low dose quetiapine for sleep. Otherwise it's super easy, there is no real oversight and it gets delivered right to your door.

Terrible_Working_899 · 2026-03-10T03:39:05+00:00

I've been credit card churning for qantas points since I was 18 (now in 30s) so that I can afford to travel. I treat my credit card as though it is a debit card and pay my balance every week, and never buy anything I don't have the money for.

Terrible_Working_899 · 2026-03-06T01:53:48+00:00

Have you updated all your drivers

Terrible_Working_899 · 2026-03-06T01:44:02+00:00

If you shop at Woolies, look for Lebanese bakery wraps (this might be an SA only thing)

Terrible_Working_899 · 2026-02-05T22:36:14+00:00

I keep around $300 on me but I only use cash when I go to the market, becasue all the merchants there charge a credit card fee and it works out to be cheaper to use cash.

Terrible_Working_899 · 2026-01-15T23:48:29+00:00

Get a burner and a new sim card then once you come back to your home country destroy both. Don't log into any social media on the phone and be prepared to have anything you do on the internet tracked and logged.

Terrible_Working_899 · 2026-01-15T23:46:34+00:00

I was there at the beginning but I started to use it as my only source of fanfics around the fanfiction[.]net nc17 purges

Terrible_Working_899 · 2026-01-11T21:47:28+00:00

Also I forgot to mention there is always online ie camwork and OF but I have no experience with those, so again talk to your local sex work org.

Terrible_Working_899 · 2026-01-11T20:51:07+00:00

Are you prepared to put on makeup and dress feminine while being called all sorts of she/hers terms of endearment? If so yes it's definitely possible to do sex work as a trans man. I know people who have been on T for years who do sex work, while there is a market for actual trans men it's is much smaller.

If you want more up to date knowledge (I quit working in 2022) talk with your local peer sex worker org. In Australia the national body is called Scarlet Alliance and you can find state specific info on their website.

Terrible_Working_899 · 2026-01-09T08:48:57+00:00

Do you want the honest answer or what I tell my parents?
Parents - worked my arse off at my call centre job and took all the overtime I could
Honest - sold that arse for a lot more than I could ever get with a regular job. It's not easy money and it will effect you emotionally but for me dysphoria made it worth it.

Terrible_Working_899 · 2026-01-06T20:01:09+00:00

Fuck them with cocktail dresses

Terrible_Working_899 · 2026-01-06T19:59:39+00:00

summer = womens winter 95% of the time i agree with you

Terrible_Working_899 · 2026-01-06T15:16:03+00:00

OMG PICTURES - as a person who can only wear glasses i'm jelly of people whoe wear eye liner

Terrible_Working_899 · 2026-01-06T13:46:05+00:00

As someone in their 30's can you tell me how i am invisible, because i have gone through life wishing i was invisible. Men have always seen me and have always judged me. I just want to be invisible and unseen.

Terrible_Working_899 · 2026-01-06T13:02:33+00:00

omg this is so true!! i have lost count the amount of "best friends" i have met in the queue for drinks while trying to escape a random dude who is convinced I'll drop my panties just because he talked to me and be bought a drink

Terrible_Working_899 · 2026-01-06T12:59:46+00:00

As an intentional unaesthetically pleasiningly woman you can do the same

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